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anonymous
I prayed for a guy like this and feel Allah has snatched him away. I'm beginning to lose hope and I am any at Allah. He always makes a dua come true then snatch it from me
My sister if a guy was not meant for you then it was only for the best that you did not marry him. Allah does not "snatch" away something that was never yours in the first place. It maybe that if you did marry such a person that things would have went so wrong and you may of ended up divorced and all sorts.
Allah does things for the best although we may not know it at the time. We do not know what is best for us but Allah does because he created us.
Therefore you should accept that whatever happens then it happens ONLY for the best. You should never think he "snatched" anything away from you because it was never yours to begin with. Even our bodies are not ours. They are a loan from Allah.
So if there is a guy who you do not end up marrying then Allah has someone better in store for you. So trust in him and put your reliance in him. Do not let shaythan make you get angry and frustrated. Be patient and accept the decree of Allah.
Many of us get through many potential suitors until we find the one meant for us because we will appreciate them much more than if we met the right one straight away.
May Allah find the best partner for you who will help you on your journey to Jannah. Ameen