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marina-hadeya
i have to say sometimes i find hard being mother when zainab is being naughty in the shops i find myself shouting at her..feel really bad..i feel like im bad mother sometimes.
Firstly, i should let you know i am not a parent, not yet. But my dear mum used to shout at me, pretty often when i was younger. And i thank Allah that she did that, cause she brought me up the hard way, the stern way, but in my opinion, the correct way.
If it wasn't for the shoutings i got, i wouldnt be where i am today, the person i am today. Sometimes, children just need a wake up call,
sometimes we hear but we don't listen and i can understand why any parent would shout at their child. Of course too much of it is not good either (:
Don't feel too bad about it. I'm sure you are a wonderful mother, just like mine and everyone else's out there. May Allah grant mothers like yourself and all the others the highest levels of Paradise insyaAllah.