I don't know what to do

[anonymous]

Long story cut short, I am engaged to a brother. We both have a lot of difference so we decided todo istikhara and I dot know the outcome of it.

Few months down the line his eldest sister is now a single parents and he is now willing to put her first even before me and my needs (after marriage)

Now I feel it's positive because of some signs, but deep down I am scared of marrying him.

I just dont know what to do. I don't know the unseen so we may be very happy but something is bothering me

[IbnAbdulHakim]

what makes you consider marrying him in the first place?


your parents?


why the dilemma?


sorry just curious, you sound like your trapped in this so im wondering.