Originally Posted by ~Zaria~
Thank you for the reply sister.
Yes sister I will try to show some more patience… I respect my parents a lot, but however I don’t understand their logic with regards to this matter. I have been understanding for the past 2 months, but yeah as you said when I talk to friends and most of them are working, buying new stuff and I’m the same old me with my ancient gadgets and what not -_-
Like right now I need something to do to get my mind off things, I just went through the stress of high school and I still have that hardworking mindset going for me atm; but I have nothing to do, bored to bits. I will have to get a job eventually and they not that too, while I have the spare time I can apply and work for a bit, but tbh it will most likely happen that when I am heaps busy and caught up with university stuff, they will tell me to apply somewhere…
Yes I agree sister, but I don’t mean to question my parents or anything but I don’t see any harm in me working at e.g. a local fruit shop 5 minutes away…
True about point 3. My parents even tell this to me, I never (hardly) ask for things compared to other teenagers my age; hardly get any spending money. They said that inshallah when I am older I will see money flocking in because I had the patience now, inshallah that’s true.
Honestly sister I would sit both of the down and talk about this, but I think they have already made up their minds. There’s nothing more I can do other then continue to get on their nerves about me getting a job lol.
I have spoken to them about how I will need this and that for uni, and they said they will get it for me, but honestly I know for sure (maybe it’s possible) but that’s not going to happen; same with getting me a new phone 2 years ago, it never happened…
Ah I have my resume planned and all, just need to submit it and I’m set, let’s hope they change their minds inshallah.