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Oh my dear sister, don't dispair! Insha'Allaah sooner or later the right guy for you will come along, just make Du'a to Allaah.
Ask your parents to look for you if you want, and ask your friends too, they may be able to help. Nowadays it's mainly about appearances unfortunately so photographs of potential brides and grooms are always asked for and passed around, maybe if you requested to your parents and friends that your photo should only be shown to the males who are Allaah-fearing and Salaah-reading. What do you think?
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anonymous
Thats another fear I have: getting cheated on. I know women cheat too and it's hidden but I'm not one to cheat.
Well adultery is Haraam, and yes unfortunately some Muslims have fallen into this sin, may Allaah forgive them, you have to be honest with the person and ask for truth from them too, and based on what they say, you have to take it at word value and only Allaah will know the truth. You will have to trust and place your faith in the answers too.
Don't worry, the fear is normal, but place your faith utterly and completely in Allaah and you will never ever go wrong, no matter what this life has in store for you :D
format_quote Originally Posted by
anonymous
Those girls who are married how did you meet your spouse?
Through family... And I felt sooo comfortable with him when I met him the first time (my husband) and I had this feeling that I can live the rest of my life with this guy, through all the ups and downs, and we will still be strong :D It was a gut instinct.
Alhamdulillah coming up to five years together now, in a couple of days :D