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Iceee
02-13-2013, 03:13 AM
Salaam to all my brothers and sisters.

Simple question.
Doesn't matter who you hug first on Eid (Fitr or Adha), just wondering.

I'll start off; I hug my father first.
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crimsontide06
02-13-2013, 03:18 AM
I did not know you have to hug someone on Eid? Mother <3
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Samiun
02-13-2013, 08:35 AM
:sl: maybe my father.. :)
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Qurratul Ayn
02-13-2013, 12:25 PM
:wasalamex

Lol... Such a random thread


format_quote Originally Posted by Iceee
On Eid, who do you hug first?
My husband
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Abd Allah
02-13-2013, 02:44 PM
Whoever has my gifts.
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Periwinkle18
02-13-2013, 02:53 PM
^ Lol

Daddy n then Mum Cuz she's busy in the kitchen.
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ardianto
02-13-2013, 03:05 PM
Hug?. For Javanese people like me, tradition on Eid is "sungkem" like this.



Picture: youdee88 wordpress com
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Periwinkle18
02-13-2013, 03:10 PM
Hmm didn't know tht.
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Scimitar
02-13-2013, 03:10 PM
I just hug the guy sitting next to me in the masjid after the Eid salaah and Khutbah has been made in the morning.

Lucky brother gets a hug from me before my parents do :D
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ardianto
02-13-2013, 03:31 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Scimitar
I just hug the guy sitting next to me in the masjid after the Eid salaah and Khutbah has been made in the morning.

Lucky brother gets a hug from me before my parents do :D
Before sungkem at home, I hug friends who I meet in masjid. :)
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Scimitar
02-13-2013, 05:00 PM
I must admit, the pic of the Sungkem made me do a very feminine "awww"... it's very sweet.

ok, this is a side to me anyone rarely sees. I better run off now :D
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rose17
02-13-2013, 08:23 PM
mmm don't know because dont really like hugging people.. i rarely hug my mom or my dad..
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Iceee
02-13-2013, 10:25 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by rose17
mmm don't know because dont really like hugging people.. i rarely hug my mom or my dad..
I'm not really touchy-friendly with anyone, but parents I hug for sure.

Of course because I am at the masjid for Eid prayers, I hug my dad and brothers and friends/uncles/cousins before hugging my Mom who's in the kitchen making some chicken-biryani on Eid :)
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tw009
02-14-2013, 04:04 AM
My mom, cause she is the one who I'm usually praying beside.
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cOsMiCiNtUiTiOn
02-14-2013, 12:09 PM
I just hug my little girl.

The Eid prayers I've attended, the sisters only hug their relatives.

- cOsMiC
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Periwinkle18
02-14-2013, 12:28 PM
^ yeah tht happens ova here too
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Qurratul Ayn
02-14-2013, 05:25 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by cOsMiCiNtUiTiOn
The Eid prayers I've attended, the sisters only hug their relatives.
format_quote Originally Posted by Periwinkle18
^ yeah tht happens ova here too
Such unaffectionate sisterly behaviour of those sisters :(

Messed up logic or what

I hug any and every sister after I've finished reading :D
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Iceee
02-14-2013, 09:10 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Qurratul Ayn
I hug any and every sister after I've finished reading :D
Salaam.

I hug every brother in the masjid that looks like they need one. :)
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muslimah bird
02-15-2013, 04:31 AM
I hug my family member whoever makes the first contact with me . No sequence as such
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Iceee
08-06-2013, 02:09 PM
Who is the first person you hug on Eid?

Family (Mom, Dad, Brother or sister etc.)? Your spouse or child? The Imam? A friend? Or a Muslim Brother or sister in the masjid who sits closest to you? Or maybe it's your pet?
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sister herb
08-06-2013, 02:14 PM
Salam alaykum

Maybe friend as all my family are Christians. They donĀ“t spend Eid at all.

:embarrass
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Iceee
08-07-2013, 01:45 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Abd Allah
Whoever has my gifts.
Eid-e first, hug later :)
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Abz2000
08-07-2013, 10:19 AM
My jacket if it's cold
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Umm Aishah
08-07-2013, 11:43 AM
Same here, in Palembang. I think now it's become a tradition of Indonesia :D
Aha, anyway we only do this to the elder. ^
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Umm Aishah
08-07-2013, 11:45 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto
Hug?. For Javanese people like me, tradition on Eid is "sungkem" like this.
Same here, in Palembang. I think now it's become a tradition of Indonesia :D
Aha, anyway we only do this to the elder. ^
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ardianto
08-07-2013, 03:43 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by Umm Aishah
Same here, in Palembang. I think now it's become a tradition of Indonesia :D
Aha, anyway we only do this to the elder. ^
Not every elder, actually. My younger brother told me "Sungkem to you? No way!" ;D

By the way, how you call "sungkem" in Palembang language?
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عابر سبيل
08-07-2013, 04:21 PM
وعليكم السلام ورحمة الله وبركاته

It's not common in my family to hug each other so I can't say I will be doing much hugging. However I do have two baby nieces, so I plan to hug the cutest one of the two only :hiding:
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Plz Answer Me
08-07-2013, 04:39 PM
My Aunt!!! :)
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ardianto
08-08-2013, 12:05 PM
Today I went to salah Eid with my kids, my brother, my sister, and their spouse. But the first person who I really hugged was my friend. I meet him on the way back to my home.
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Plz Answer Me
08-08-2013, 12:14 PM
format_quote Originally Posted by ardianto
Today I went to salah Eid with my kids, my brother, my sister, and their spouse. But the first person who I really hugged was my friend. I meet him on the way back to my home.
Mashaallah! Mashaallah! Eid Mubarak to you and your (naughty;D) kids :)
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Paprika
08-14-2013, 08:00 AM
family only, sometimes random strangers wanna hug me, can't blame em, eid day I have a lot of Nur coz I am not hungry, I sample mums' samoosa's before that.:shade:



Am I the only one who thinks the eid hug should be done standing on only one leg??? now imagine how much more sincere that hug will be compared to a two legged affair????:bump1:
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greenhill
08-14-2013, 11:23 AM
In Malaysia we practice similar to what bro Ardianto illustrated on the first page. We normally start with our parents first (usually who is available and in most cases it is the father, then the mother) then it is the most senior members of the family before gravitating to distant relatives etc.

Once married, usually it starts with the spouse and then to parents and so on....

For me it would be my wife and kids first as they are with me, then to my mum (as my dad passed away 20 years ago) and then my grandma, followed by uncles and aunties.... Usually it is hugs and kisses too!:hiding:
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Plz Answer Me
08-14-2013, 11:32 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by greenhill
In Malaysia we practice similar to what bro Ardianto illustrated on the first page. We normally start with our parents first (usually who is available and in most cases it is the father, then the mother) then it is the most senior members of the family before gravitating to distant relatives etc.

Once married, usually it starts with the spouse and then to parents and so on....

For me it would be my wife and kids first as they are with me, then to my mum (as my dad passed away 20 years ago) and then my grandma, followed by uncles and aunties.... Usually it is hugs and kisses too!:hiding:
:smile::smile::smile::awesome::thumbs_up:thumbs_up :thumbs_up
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tearose
08-14-2013, 03:35 PM
As-salamu 3laikum,

This year the first person I hugged was my friend who came to pick me up. Last year, I don't remember, it may have been a friend's mother or maybe some sisters I didn't know.
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Nur Student
08-14-2013, 04:50 PM
The friend closest to me after the Eid preaching (hutba) is over.
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hamdnaat
08-14-2013, 07:46 PM
Ofcourse Our Father, Because We Often Eid Prayer Together. Then 1st we meet with father
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