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Aatiq Imtiyaz
03-07-2013, 06:04 PM
Assalamualaikum ,

I have been in a relationship with a hindu girl for more than 2 years now but only recently I started being religious. There was nothing wrong that i used to do but now i perfected my salat and just changed alot of things in my life. No music , the way im towards my parents and others around. Alhamdullilah its very positive now. So i had a talk with the girl and we still havent sorted things out. She isn't very much into Hinduism so at first i thought it would be easy. But being realistic , i feel even if i was born into someother religion it would have been very difficult. Alhamdullilah im born muslim :) .
I feel that if the way is right and she gets to know the religion to the depth she might accept it. But what if she does not?
I still talk to her but now it's mostly about religion. I feel that i should keep telling her just about Islam and the beauty of it , and not trying to prove her that its right and her religion is wrong. That approach is not the right one. At the same time i feel maybe i should just let it go.
I even feel if i get her to talk to someone who was hindu and reverted to islam she'd understand better.

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Alpha Dude
03-07-2013, 07:56 PM
Wa alaykum salam,

In my opinion, it would be best for you if you left her. Hoping she will convert and sticking with her in sin is not a good idea.

03-08-2013, 01:38 AM
good to hear ur diversion toward religion. about that girl i think none of us is in position to comment bcz we don't know her. anyway i will say give it a go if u think she is a good person. i remember once a person bcm Muslim and Prophet SAW said meaning more or less, i was hopeful of of ur knowledge and wisdom that u will accept Islam. so if u r seeing some sign give it a go otherwise as brother suggested move on.

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