Salaam.
inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi raji'un
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Give charity for your parents.
Pray 5 times a day.
After prayers whether with the Imam or by yourself at home, make du'a to forgive your parents, and all Muslim Brothers and Sisters Sins.
Go Hajj once in your life. I'm sure your parents would have loved that.
Forgive. And don't forget them. They are your parents. We can never forget those who gave birth to us and those who raised us to be the beautiful Muslims we are today.
Visit their graves and pray. Avoid crying. Remember your parents. What they have done in their lives. Their friends. Their love towards not only you but your other siblings.
Before I conclude my dear Sister, I leave you the following. Inshallah you read and benefit from the following hadiths.
The loss of a loved one is a time when a person may be overwhelmed with grief, and many customs surrounding bereavement reflect the depth of the feeling of loss. Wailing, eulogizing (ie praising the deceased excessively) and tearing one's garments are all customs which were well known at the time of Jâhiliyyah, and are still common among some Muslims. Such conduct is not permitted in Islâm, as the believer is required to face bereavement, like all the other trials of life, with patience.It is permitted to cry or weep, softy, before death, at the time of death, and after the person has died.According to ash-Shâfi'î, however, it is makrûh to cry after the person has died, but permissible before the soul has departed.
The correct opinion is that crying is permitted both before and after death. The evidence for this is the hadîth narrated by Jâbir ibn 'Abdullâh (RA) in which he said: "My father died at the battle of Uhud, and I began to weep. The people told me to stop, but the Messenger (SAAS) never asked me to stop. Then my aunt Fâtimah began to weep too, and the Prophet (SAAS) said:
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'It does not matter whether you cry or not, the angels kept shading him until they ascended with his soul' "(agreed upon). |
Ibn 'Abbâs (RA) reported that when Ruqayyah (RA), the daughter of the Prophet (SAAS), died, the women started to cry, and' Umar (RA) began to whip them to make them stop. The Prophet (SAAS) told him: "O 'Umar, leave them alone and let them cry." To the women he said: "Go ahead and cry, but avoid the crying of the Shaytân ... Whatever comes from the eye and heart is from Allâh and is a sign of mercy, and whatever comes from your hand and your tongue is from the shaytân. "(Ahmad)
The Prophet (peace and blessings be upon him) is reported to have said,
"When a son of Adam passes away, he is cut off from his deeds except for three things: a current or perpetual charity, good knowledge that benefits someone, and a good child who makes du`a' (supplication) for him."
Our duties towards our parents, as we learn from the sources, do not cease with their death; rather they continue as long as we live. In a report cited by Imam al-Bukhari in his famous work al-Adab al-Mufrad we read, “A man approached the Prophet asking, “Is there anything I must do in terms of kindness towards my parents after their death?” The Prophet replied, “Yes, there are four things for you to do: Praying and asking forgiveness of Allah on their behalf, fulfilling their promises, respecting their friends, and fostering their ties of kinship…”
Forgot to add one thing.
If you visit their graves, try going when it is not during the month of Ramadan or on Eid. A lot of males will be there most likely and it's not good for prayers. Go with siblings or relatives and make du'a together and reflect on their lives Inshallah.