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Sister.12
Well I belong to ahmadi firqa and he doesn't.
It is actually a different religion (if it can be called that), not a different sect within Islam. If you do not believe that Muhammad :saws:, who was born in Makkah and died in Madinah, was the last and final messenger of Allah, and you believe that mirza ghulam ahmad of qadiyan (la'natullah alaihi) was a Prophet after him, then you are not a Muslim, and you are not allowed for him in marriage anyway.
Unfortunately, many Ahmadis/Qadiyanis/Mirzais are unaware of what is in their books and what their religion teaches. Have a look at the following post:
http://www.islamicboard.com/advice-s...ml#post1541561
The most important thing is correct hidaayat (guidance) for yourself, embrace Islam, and only then can the issue of marrying this person enter the equation. Even if he knows you are an Ahmadi and is willing to accept that, if he marries you as is, his marriage will be invalid.
But before you consider your marriage please urgently consider the issue of your destiny in the hereafter, for that is far more important. No marriage to any man can save anyone then. We will stand before Allah alone. But you must not just do this for marriage, but because you truly repent, and because belief in Islam comes truly and willingly from your heart, for yourself, not for any other person.
Will you do that, and will you allow us to help you learn?