Originally Posted by t.jack
^ And so you should sister, in shaa Allah.
It is only fair towards the person who is desirous of spending his life with you, that he should be aware of a condition that will most certainly affect his life in some way as well.
This would apply to any serious and chronic condition - be it cancer/ HIV/ neurological problems, etc.
I think we would all expect the same from our spouses in shaa Allah.
So shouldnt we deal with others in the same way, that we would like to be dealt with?
My sister, you should always bear in mind that whatever happens in life - it is ONLY by the decree of Allah (subhanawataála).
Do you TRUST in the plans of Allah?
That He can make anything
possible, for His bounties are completely limitless.
So, this is no small matter for him.
If He so decrees, then He will make marriage a reality for you.....despite any obstacles that you may face.
Please read the following story: http://www.saudigazette.com.sa/index...=2010021863786
of brother Abdullah Banimah who found love and marriage despite being quadriplegic (paralyzed from the neck down).
Allah (subhanawataála) reminds us in His glorius book:
Say, “Nothing will happen to us except what Allah has decreed for us;
He is our Protector.”
And in Allah let the believers put their trust.
(translation Surat Tawbah 9:51)
So turn to Allah in sincere duaa, and have complete trust in His plans for you.
May Allah Taa'la ease your situation and grant you the best in both the worlds.