format_quote Originally Posted by Abz2000;n2230609
Assalamu'alaikum sis, Allah destined that the Prophet pbuh show us examples marrying both extremes of age for a reason so that we don't create false taboos in the lawful. One can also consider that someone who dies early might leave you with blessed memories of happiness - however short the time Allah destines for you, and another can give you a long lifetime of grief. So do that which is pleasing to Allah and pleasing to you - never neglecting the former, and inshaAllah, He will bless you in this wprld and the hereafter, or at least make any hardship a blessing for the hereafter. 1. Does he fear Allah? 2. Does he seem pleasing? 3. Does he gots loadsa moneyz? If so, better still! If u not after his goods ;)
Wa'alaikumussalam brother
To answer your questions,
1. He does pray all five prayers mostly at the masjid, but at the same time, I was kind of thrown back by some of his behavior i.e. not approaching my father or brother right away, texting me beyond necessity, asking if I can visit his work, and always asking for pictures of myself. He saw me at his restaurant and my friend that was with me sort of got in the middle. Shortly thereafter,mom told me to ask him to visit our house so that my brother and the rest of my family can see him and decide, but he seemed a bit hesitant or afraid of getting into a fight with my dad or brother.
2. I guess he seems alright. I guess outwardly, he is attractive. He does play a lot of mind games so I am not sure.
3. Definitely not loads of money. He just co-owns a restaurant. Probably average or even a bit under-average. I mean he doesn't even have his own house. He lives with his cousin's family and he sends money overseas.