:wasalam:
Alarm bells are ringing here.
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Asif Sohail
me and my wife had court marriage
Does this mean civil marriage with no Nikah?
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Asif Sohail
at that time the situation was not right to sent him to her parents because we married without thier permission
If there was a nikah, who was her wali? The overwhelming Islamic opinion is that a girl is not allowed to get married without her walis permission (usually her father), and if her father has passed away, the uncle etc. Her father may delegate the job of wali to someone, but that doesn't override his consent.
There are a number of questions here, that a person of knowledge would have to go through with you. Depending on what the answers are, it may be that her parents are absolutely correct in not returning her to you, if the marriage was never Islamically valid or proper to begin with. But then again, it might be that it is valid. We simply don't know. We don't know the details of the situation, we don't know how the Pakistani court system works, we don't know other things. We are lay people, like yourself. Such questions as major and important as the validity/breaking/repairing/difficulties with marriage, should really be asked of knowledgeable imams/scholars of your locality, who understands the culture, system and situation where you are, and can help directly. If there is none, ask around. Somebody will know someone. Otherwise there are scholars who come on TV programs, and you may be able to get the contact details for one of those, who even if they can't help directly might refer you to someone local to you who you do know. Fatwa sites are another option.
In order to prevent potentially wrong advice from us, I will close this thread here.
May Allah guide to the best of course of action, and enable us to do everything properly in a way that pleases Him, ameen.