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BilalKid
whats difference between the two, and what does quran and hadith say about both? ^o)
The following work may be of some interest to you. It is the
Islamic Guide to Sexual Relations.
Mufti Muhammad ibn Adam al-Kawthari utilizes a contextual approach of various Islamic sources to explain this issue.
In my opinion, it is a very well-written, balanced, and comprehensive piece of guidance for the Muslim Ummah. For example, an excerpt reads:
“In order to set the mood and atmosphere of romance, the wife should use various ways and means of seducing her husband. She may flirt, talk and behave amorously in order to arouse her husband’s sexual interest, avoiding anything that may be distasteful or a ‘turn off’. In this way, the scene will be set for a passionate and enjoyable session of husband-wife union,
In sha’ Allah.” (p. 44)
To gain full benefit from the book, it is recommended that it be read in its entirety.