format_quote Originally Posted by
Pygoscelis
Just tell them its a religious thing that you can't shake hands with opposite gender. No Biggie. May make opposite gender people walk around on eggshells around you though. I tend to avoid women who are wearing Islamic veils... unsure what will offend them and not wanting to deal with that.. probably the way they want it so it all works out.
Peace to you Pygoscelis,
(smile) Thank you for your input. (smile) However, I would like to say that I think you are mistaken. I wear a headscarf, and it bothers me when people (its not just men) won't deal with me. Whether it be while I'm working, or ordering food at a restaurant, or ill in hospital, it can be quite painful when people act as if you are invisible or unable to hold a sensible conversation.
I am a person. I am not invisible. Or mute. Or incapable of sensible discourse. (gently) Please, Pygoscelis, if you have interactions with women in headscarves, treat them with the same level of dignity and respect as you would wish for yourself. (twinkle) You could maybe hold off on the handshaking, kisses and hugs... but Muslim women are allowed to talk with you in appropriate ways, whether it be on the job, or in public generally.
(smile) And remember: Muslim women are
not a monolithic entity. Each person is different, and may live their Islam in subtly different ways. (smile) What one may be uncomfortable with, another may not. As with everyone, we have to try to tailor our interactions with others in respect and efforts at mutual understanding.
May God Reward you, Pygoscelis, for your efforts on this Forum to help us understand one another better.