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Dreamchaser
my mom is keeping making bad dua's and I am really getting frustrated! I made her really mad today and she literally put her hands up and made the worst duas possible. I think the reason why i am not succeeding in life is because of these evil duas shes making for me. I am thinking of moving out because I feel like I cause her a lot of stress and anger. I have been trying to get close to Allah but I don't think I'll get anywhere because I heard Jannah is under your mothers feet and I honestly don't think I'll make it there because she always prays I don't. How do I deal with her??
As salaam sister,
Are you making her mad, or is she just angry? My mom is like that most times, but it's because she's lonely, or we (her kids) don't spend much time with her, we're always in school or work and she stays home cleaning and stuff. Maybe your mom wants you to spend time with her. Even if she says get away from me, don't! Go closer hug and kiss her, remind her of when you were younger and things she used to do with you. She will smile eventually. Lotion her feet or massage them. Do some cleaning and cooking if you don't. Shell appreciate it. And if she does alot of work, give her a day off, take her out or something. Go apologize to her even if you did nothing wrong. Just comfort her.
I watched a video the other day, I'll have to find it and share it with you. It was really good. It was about this mom and her son. I don't remeber if her son would do bad or he would do nothing wrong, and she would make the worst of duas. One day she got made, I think it was on a Friday, she made a dua about her son: she said I wish you can go and get ran over by a car and a man will come to my house telling me that. So later that day, a guy comes to her and tells her that her son got ran over by a car and died. She was devastated. They say that their is a time on Friday that if you make a dua during that time, you dua will come true. But no one knows when exactly that time is.
Inshallah sister that you can find a resolution to your problem. Ask Allah for guidance. And I'm here for you, if you need anything. ☺