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Khalid Saifullah
03-24-2016, 10:33 AM
معظم مشاكلنا مع أحبابنا تقع بسببين :
١- مقصود لم يُفهم
٢- مفهوم لم يُقصد
والحل بخطوتين :
١- إستفسر عن قصده
٢- وأحسن الظن به
وقد ذكر الله هذا الحل في سورة الحجرات :
- " فتبينوا أن تصيبوا قوما بجهالة فتصبحوا على ما فعلتم نادمين ".
- " يا أيها الذين آمنوا اجتنبوا كثيراً من "الظن" إن بعض الظن إثم " .
والخلاصة من ذلك :
إذا خانني التعبير
فلا يخونك التفسير
ارتق بتفكيرك تنعم بحياتك .
Most of our problems that happen between us and our brothers/sisters are because of two reasons:
1. An understanding that wasn't intended.
2. An intention that wasn't understood properly.
And the solution is:
1. Ask the reason why he/she said/did
2. Have a general good opinion of the person
Allah mentioned the answer to in Sura Hujuraat
"See clarity lest ignorance befall a people thus you become, because of what you did, regretful."
Oh you who have believed, stay away from a lot of suspicion for verily some suspicion is sin."
In summary, if the wording has deluded me, the explanation should not.
Rise in your thought process
Your life will become blissful.
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