It all started like this
https://vimeo.com/113801913
In the video, Junaid Jamshed says: "Hazrat Ayesha wanted to gain the attention of rasulAllah. One day she was pretending to be sick and had wrapped a scarf around her head. The prophet (pbuh) asked that what is wrong. She answered that she is sick and has a severe head ache. Then the prophet answered that what if you die because of this sickness, you would be so lucky that rasulAllah (pbuh) will pray your janazah. After hearing this she quickly got up. She said that all you want is for me to die so you can go to the other wives. Therefore even when it comes to the prophet's presence, a woman cannot change. A woman is like a stick, you put force and it will break."
He even publicly apologised :
http://m.youtube.com/watch?v=DSRwxgW7r54
Some people dont find his apology as enough