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#1 - Clicking where it says "Gems" will actually load up all the Gem threads in that section.
#2 Don't want to be seen by someone? You can hide yourself when you log in and be invisible.
Settings > General Settings > Invisible mode ON
#3 Do you want be notified when someone replies to a specific thread? Subscribe to the thread and you will receive notifications :).
#4 Is a particular user annoying or bothering you? Add them to your ignore list :). Then all threads/posts of this user will be hidden and they won't be able to send you PM's.
Settings >My Account > Edit Ignore List
Or you can view their user profile and click "Add to ignore list"
#5 Need more likes and reps? Do not beg :D. Make quality posts and as the saying goes "The more you give, the more you get".