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BilalKid
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There are youths who misunderstand "polygamy prevent zina" as "a man will fall into zina if he has only one wife". It's incorrect. "Polygamy prevent zina" actually refer to case which a married man and single woman fall in love. Polygamy make them can avoid extramarital relationship. But if a man has uncontrolled desire which he always attracted to random women, then no matter how much wives he have, he still can fall into zina.
I've also found misconception in forum that if a man has beautiful wife, then he will not look at other woman. It's incorrect. Not the wife's beauty that will make the husband feel uncomfortable, but how his wife treat him. If a man has beautiful wife, but his wife always disrespect him, then he will start have an urge to find another woman who can make him feel comfortable. Probably the another woman that he choose is not beautiful.