[QUOTE=shifah;2913937]Asalam alikum,
Sorry for what you are going through and all the negative energy around you, your family and your community. My advise to you is please try to read the Quran as many times as possible . If Arabic is not your first Language look for any translated Quran in your language, Audios are better. Listen and comprehend.
The point of Black magic if u true believe that uit can have any effect on you u will be psycologically trumatised. But if you talk to any imam who understand religion better than you he will advise you which verses or duas to read and you will never be affected by whatever those people believe in.
As for your father even though the Quran gives a provision for many to marry more than one wife, they should do it only if they are just both emotionaly and financially
read Quran 4:surat An Nisaa verse ( 1-176). I believe you will get most of the answers regarding women in Islam and hpw they should be treated.
TRY TO READ QURAN 72:SURAT AL JINN (1-28)
Bismillaahir Rahmaanir Raheem
- Qul oohiya ilaiya annna hustama'a nafarum minal jinnni faqaalooo innaa sami'naa quraanan 'ajabaa
- Yahdeee ilar rushdi fa aamannaa bihee wa lan nushrika bi rabbinaaa ahadaa
- Wa annahoo Ta'aalaa jaddu Rabbinaa mat takhaza saahibatanw wa la waladaa
- Wa annahoo kaana yaqoolu safeehunaa 'alal laahi shatataa
- Wa annaa zanannaaa al lan taqoolal insu wal jinnu 'alal laahi kazibaa
- Wa annahoo kaana rijaa lum minal insi ya'oozoona birijaalim minal jinni fazaa doohum rahaqaa
- Wa annahum zannoo kamaa zanantum al lany yab'asal laahu ahadaa
- Wa annaa lamasnas sa maaa'a fa wajadnaahaa muli'at harasan shadeedanw wa shuhubaa
- Wa annaa kunnaa naq'udu minhaa maqaa'ida lis'sam'i famany yastami'il aana yajid lahoo shihaabar rasada
- Wa annaa laa nadreee asharrun ureeda biman fil ardi am araada bihim rabbuhum rashadaa
- Wa annaa minnas saalihoona wa minnaa doona zaalika kunnaa taraaa'ilqa qidadaa
- Wa annaa zanannaaa al lan nu'jizal laaha fil ardi wa lan nu'jizahoo harabaa
- Wa annaa lammaa sami'nal hudaaa aamannaa bihee famany yu'mim bi rabbihee falaa yakhaafu bakhsanw wa laa rahaqaa
- Wa annaa minnal muslimoona wa minnal qaasitoona faman aslama fa ulaaa'ika taharraw rashadaa
- Wa ammal qaasitoona fa kaanoo li jahannama hatabaa
- Wa alla wis taqaamoo 'alat tareeqati la asqaynaahum maa'an ghadaqaa
- Linaftinahum feeh; wa many yu'rid 'an zikri rabbihee yasluk hu 'azaaban sa'adaa
- Wa annal masaajida lillaahi falaa tad'oo ma'al laahi ahadaa
- Wa annahoo lammaa qaama 'adul laahi yad'oohu kaadoo yakoonoona 'alaihi libadaa
- Qul innamaaa ad'oo rabbee wa laaa ushriku biheee ahadaa
- Qul innee laaa amliku lakum darranw wa laa rashadaa
- Qul innee lany yujeeranee minal laahi ahad, wa lan ajida min doonihee multahadaa
- Illaa balaagham minal laahi wa risaalaatih; wa many ya'sil laaha wa rasoolahoo fa inna lahoo naara jahannama khaalideena feehaaa abadaa
- Hattaaa izaa ra aw maa yoo'adoona fasaya'lamoona man ad'afu naasiranw wa aqallu 'adadaa
- Qul in adreee a qareebum maa too'adoona am yaj'alu lahoo rabbeee amadaa
- 'Aalimul ghaibi falaa yuzhiru alaa ghaibiheee ahadaa
- Illaa manir tadaa mir rasoolin fa innahoo yasluku mim baini yadihi wa min khalfihee rasadaa
- Liya'lama an qad ablaghoo risaalaati rabbihim wa ahaata bima ladihim wa ahsaa kulla shai'in 'adadaa
HIDE ENGLISH -
Abdullah Yusuf Ali Translation
1. Say: It has been revealed to me that a company of Jinns listened (to the Qur'an). They said, 'We have really heard a wonderful Recital!
2. 'It gives guidance to the Right, and we have believed therein: we shall not join (in worship) any (gods) with our Lord.
3. 'And Exalted is the Majesty of our Lord: He has taken neither a wife nor a son.
4. 'There were some foolish ones among us, who used to utter extravagant lies against Allah.
5. 'But we do think that no man or spirit should say aught that untrue against Allah.
6. 'True, there were persons among mankind who took shelter with persons among the Jinns, but they increased them in folly.
7. 'And they (came to) think as ye thought, that Allah would not raise up any one (to Judgment).
8. 'And we pried into the secrets of heaven; but we found it filled with stern guards and flaming fires.
9. 'We used, indeed, to sit there in (hidden) stations, to (steal) a hearing; but any who listen now will find a flaming fire watching him in ambush.
10. 'And we understand not whether ill is intended to those on earth, or whether their Lord (really) intends to guide them to right conduct.
11. 'There are among us some that are righteous, and some the contrary: we follow divergent paths.
12. 'But we think that we can by no means frustrate Allah throughout the earth, nor can we frustrate Him by flight.
13. 'And as for us, since we have listened to the Guidance, we have accepted it: and any who believes in his Lord has no fear, either of a short (account) or of any injustice.
14. 'Amongst us are some that submit their wills (to Allah., and some that swerve from justice. Now those who submit their wills - they have sought out (the path) of right conduct:
15. 'But those who swerve,- they are (but) fuel for Hell-fire'-
16. (And Allah.s Message is): "If they (the Pagans) had (only) remained on the (right) Way, We should certainly have bestowed on them Rain in abundance.
17. "That We might try them by that (means). But if any turns away from the remembrance of his Lord, He will cause him to undergo a severe Penalty.
18. "And the places of worship are for Allah (alone): So invoke not any one along with Allah.
19. "Yet when the Devotee of Allah stands forth to invoke Him, they just make round him a dense crowd."
20. Say: "I do no more than invoke my Lord, and I join not with Him any (false god)."
21. Say: "It is not in my power to cause you harm, or to bring you to right conduct."
22. Say: "No one can deliver me from Allah (If I were to disobey Him), nor should I find refuge except in Him,
23. "Unless I proclaim what I receive from Allah and His Messages: for any that disobey Allah and His Messenger,- for them is Hell: they shall dwell therein for ever."
24. At length, when they see (with their own eyes) that which they are promised,- then will they know who it is that is weakest in (his) helper and least important in point of numbers.
25. Say: "I know not whether the (Punishment) which ye are promised is near, or whether my Lord will appoint for it a distant term.
26. "He (alone) knows the Unseen, nor does He make any one acquainted with His Mysteries,-
27. "Except an apostle whom He has chosen: and then He makes a band of watchers march before him and behind him,
28. "That He may know that they have (truly) brought and delivered the Messages of their Lord: and He surrounds (all the mysteries) that are with them, and takes account of every single thing."
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May this information help you find peace with in your heart .
Wasalam.
Thanks you,well our language is written in arabic script but it's not arabic we can read arabic easily but i have a problem so it's hard for me to read arabic,that's because i'm not trying probably,we do have Quran in our house,my dad is stubborn and sensitive he denies respect for women in Islam and goes by his own rules yet he treats his other wife like a queen she is taking our right my dad like buys her costly stuff clothes mobile,phones and other stuff,but he never buys anything for my mom and when eid comes he says why don't we all just wear our old clothes on eid,he doesn't care about us,our home and our respect and we have to order clothes online,our mom can't even divorce our dad cuz if he does no one will take us in cuz our relatives are selfish as hell even my mom's brothers and no one will provide for us anymore our mom can't even do a job because she's told not to do any job kind of like a blackmail i guess and the worst thing is we can't even do anything against our relatives or to tell our dad to stop or he blackmails to throw us out or divorce mum.