Originally Posted by javeria.iqbal
Offer reparation to your victims.
If you have been rude to your victim, try to find her again, and say friendly things to her, to make her happy. That should be suitable reparation for your offense. If you cannot find your victim anymore, pick a person in a situation as similar as possible to your victim, and offer reparation to that person instead, by doing something very friendly for her.
Evil deeds can relatively easily be cancelled out by good deeds, if the beneficiary is the same as the victim. Otherwise, it is a bit more difficult, but if you want your repentance to be counted as sincere, you will still have to be seen expending effort to repair. Without reparation efforts, the negative balance will still remain with you. Ugly words can be repaired with friendly ones. So, you will have to pick enough people, to be especially friendly to, in order to work off your debt.