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huma89
Yes i am sure he is alone and interested but the girl just wont put me forward not sure why? But i guess if its meant to be it will ... feeling really down about it :(
Your story remind me to my story, although not really same. When I was young my female friend introduced me to a girl. That girl immediately liked me when we met, although I heard from my friend, that girl was ever expect another guy. However, not so long that girl told my friend honestly that she was still expecting the another guy, but ....."If I cannot get that guy, then get Ardianto is okay". Of course I didn't want to be treated as the spare guy. So I decided to seek another girl.
Back to your story. A year ago your friend conveyed marriage proposal from a guy. You rejected this proposal because you were expecting the better guy. But after a year you change your mind. I guess, it's because you think, rather than never get married, marry that guy is okay. Your friend knows what's in your mind, and she feel uncomfortable if she must convey your invitation because it can offend that guy.
My advice, do not urge your friend again, and do not expect that guy again. It's better if you take a lesson from what has been happened. What you should do now is make du'a, wish Allah send the next suitor. And when the next suitor has come, read again what I have written in post #4.
Okay?