Assalamu Alaikum
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qamarjavid
My question is: is the nikkah valid or what is the relationship between 2 people who had there nikkah done and havent had sex due to culture reasons.
Yes, the nikkah is still valid, even if you have not had any sexual contact due to cultural reasons.
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qamarjavid
I had ny nikkah done with my cousin and we havent done anything physical to compensate the nikkah.
Sex is not required to validate nikkah.
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qamarjavid
I need to know whether or not a talaaq is required in order to break the nikkah?
Yes, talaaq would be required to break the nikkah, and only one talaaq is required for divorce since you have not touched her. No iddah period would be needed for her, so you cannot take her back after divorce, except with a new nikkah and a new mahr.
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qamarjavid
What is our relationship in islam view?
You are considered married right now.
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qamarjavid
If we break nikkah can we re marry in the future without any of us going through another marriage with different person?
If you get divorced now (without intercourse), and neither of you marry another person, then you can marry each other, but with new nikkah and new mahr as mentioned previously.
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qamarjavid
I am asking this because the girl i am married to didnt even allow me to touch her or kiss her. She has nit contacted me for 2 weeks now and doesnt seem interested in me at all. I did this nikkah for my mom happiness and her brother escalated this nikkah to happen as the mom didnt agree either and she is my first cousin.
Maybe you should try to get to know her more before rushing into the physical contact. If she is not comfortable with you touching her or kissing her, it might be because she is not completely comfortable with you yet. Since she's a virgin and from a conservative culture, she is going to be shy and may need time to warm up to you. If you are always in a rush to force her to do these things, then that could be the reason why she is distant. I can understand it's difficult if she is not putting in the effort to talk to you yet, but take it slow for now. You're telling her "I love you and I miss you" but you admitted earlier that you did not even want to marry her and only did it for your family's happiness. So are you faking your affection to get physical contact from her faster? She probably wants to get to know you but every time you jump into the "I love you's" and affection, it might push her away since she has not developed those same feelings.
If you truly do not feel connected with her or attracted to her, and do not want to be married to her, then it's better to divorce now. You should call her family and ask to speak with her, and explain to her how you feel. Be clear about letting her know you need to communicate with her more often so that you both can get to know each other better (don't jump into i love you's). When you make it clear and direct for her, it will clarify things for you too and you will know if she is willing to put in the efforts to communicate regularly with you. After frequent communication, the relationship will develop and then affection will come naturally from both sides. If she refuses to do that first step, then it's clear she doesn't want to get to know you and there's no need to waste either of your time.