I agree with you that you should be able to ask whatever question you like, I'm not a moderator so I don't know the reasons why they would delete your posts.
I suggest that you try to talk to Muslims directly, maybe if you have a local mosque, you could talk to the local Imam.
Also if you post your rough location, like country and city, I'm sure someone can point you to a direction of an islamic organisation that may have people available to answer your questions.
There may be underlying reasons for why you can't post certain questions online as I understand its much more convenient to ask your questions here.
Originally Posted by czgibson