View Full Version : What is the likelihood and chances of this

08-08-2017, 02:51 AM

Assalamu Alaykum Wa Rahmatullahi Wa barakaatu

I would like to get married sometime throughout this year most likely through arrange as I am trying my best to adhere to the Quran and sunnah and want to stay safe from fitna inshAllah. The thing is I would like a sister who sticks to the Quran and sunnah and is on the manhaj. Someone who wears niqab and is also a virgin. I dont care about ethnicity, color or education. As long as the person has taqwa overall nice character and is kind and intelligent. I my self have never been in any type of haram relationship. Excluding divorcees and widows I would not like to marry someone who isnt a virgin but at the moment im quite young, only 20 and without experience I dont feel confident marrying someone who has been widowed or divorced. But I just wanted to see peoples views and see whether my prefereneces are too constricted meaning would it not be likely that I could find someone like this or is it possible. And am I being too fussy as well as shaytaans influence thinking about virginity or is it reasonable being my marital right?

Ps it isnt my intention to offend anyone or start an argumentative thread so please

JazakAllah khairun

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08-09-2017, 03:41 PM

Erm...i don't know what's this fuss about virginity is. But i don't think you should have any problem finding such a girl depending on where you live. If its a Muslim country then go and talk to your parents and they will make it happen. If its a non-Muslim country then it might be hard.

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