I'm a bad muslim and need help desperately

[Random10576]

Salam,

Im desperately in need of help:cry: im a very very bad muslim teen i used to be very good then i moved states and everything changed i slowly started to miss my prayers then i stopped over all and i started to do a lot of bad sins but i really really want to stop but every time i try i just can't i'm always telling myself starting tonight i'm gonna change but it never happens and i feel like i'm getting worse by the day can someone plz help if you have any advise please say it i'm desperate to become a better muslim and make my iman stronger

[Umm Malik]

the first thing you should know is that shaytan like to let you feel that there is no hope for you because this is the strongest thing to make you far from repentance
so think about the mercy of Allah and as long as you try to correct yourself he will help you
try to avoid the things which led you to sins
do a lot of good deeds and don't left your prayers
because the good deeds clean the bad deeds and make you strong to strive against the temptations
ask Allah especially in sujoud from the bottom of your heart and at night as much as you can
make your self busy with helping others reading and doing some halal hobbies you have
remember Allah especially istighfar while you think of your mistakes and then saying LA hawla wala kuwwata illa billah also while you remembering your mistakes and how you are so weak and seeking Allah's help
try to have good friends and avoid your bad friends if they remind you of sins
may Allah help you
don't lose hope ... Allah is with you as long as you remember him and trying to be close to him
do your best and Allah will help you ...

[Random10576]

I try to help people as much as i can but when it comes to my family all i do is get mad i feel like everything they do gets me mad and every time i get mad i do something sinful like yell or say bad things about them in my mind and for my friends all my friends are muslim but all bad i feel like there is no good muslim around me anymore. For the praying i will inshallah try my best to start praying again. Also one thing that i feel like is stopping me from trying to change is maybe i'm meant to be one of those people that go to hell allah just wrote that for my destiny and i think that because some of my family members have told me that so many times that its stuck in my mind now and it gives me doubt i can ever be a good person again.

[lif]

A true freind is one who reminds you of Allah i don’t know you’re freinds but i know alot of muslims who are muslim just by name try to find true freinds that will guide you

As for anger when you are mad or angry leave quietly from that room or gathering and try to come back to your senses so that you can talk to them with peace anger with anger will never solve even if they yell at you what ever they do do not be harsh on them as they well get more angry

For praying just pray when you are down pray when you are sad pray when you are broke pray when you are high pray when you are lonely pray when you are rich pray when you are at the best of iman pray because indeed praying benefits you sorry for my grammar hopefully this helped abit

May Allah have mercy on you and you’re family and may Allah bring out the best of your deen and iman know that whom ever allah loves most he test more

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Learn your deen. more you'll learn, more you'll understand, more you'll be able to help yourself.

[Random10576]

i honestly feel hopeless because that's what everyone tells me and nowadays its harder im always always getting in fights with my mom for the smallest reasons and she just tells me im going to hell

[*charisma*]

Assalamu Alaikum

I try to help people as much as i can but when it comes to my family all i do is get mad i feel like everything they do gets me mad and every time i get mad i do something sinful like yell or say bad things about them in my mind and for my friends all my friends are muslim but all bad i feel like there is no good muslim around me anymore. For the praying i will inshallah try my best to start praying again. Also one thing that i feel like is stopping me from trying to change is maybe i'm meant to be one of those people that go to hell allah just wrote that for my destiny and i think that because some of my family members have told me that so many times that its stuck in my mind now and it gives me doubt i can ever be a good person again.

You should distance yourself from the people who are not good for you. It's better to be alone than with a group of bad friends.
You have to learn make better choices if you want your life to change. Hell is not your destiny if you seek repentance.
Instead of getting angry with your family and thinking bad things about them, ask Allah to guide you both. Wouldn't that be better for you?
You shouldn't fight with your mom. You will regret it in the end. You only have ONE mom in this whole world. She does a lot for you, she has to put up with a lot because of you. Once she's gone she is gone forever. You can always replace your friends, but you'll never ever be able to replace your parents. So treat them with respect and try to act better towards them. Don't make it a habit or easy to speak back to them because that will only be hurting them and it will really hurt you in the end when you look back on your life.

[Tuba13]

Assalamualaikum...I am a teen too and I had the same feeling...don't worry...teenage is like that...everyone changes during this age...this is the age when shaythan influences us ...this is what I did...I started doing a lot of asthagfar and that eventually helped...start praying from today and cry to Allah..tell him everything...ask forgiveness as he is oft-forgiving...and ask Allah to bring you closer to him...to give you hidayath..to guide you to the right path...to shower the light of his deen on you...listen to Islamic lectures and it will really help you...I will remember you in my duas..May Allah guide you...ameen

[Kashif Amin]

Salam,

Im desperately in need of help:cry: im a very very bad muslim teen i used to be very good then i moved states and everything changed i slowly started to miss my prayers then i stopped over all and i started to do a lot of bad sins but i really really want to stop but every time i try i just can't i'm always telling myself starting tonight i'm gonna change but it never happens and i feel like i'm getting worse by the day can someone plz help if you have any advise please say it i'm desperate to become a better muslim and make my iman stronger

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