Originally Posted by syphax
She was just his girlfriend, so she doesn't have any obligation to stay with him anymore. Now since she is a Muslimah, she cannot marry him unless he becomes a Muslim. I understand that you feel bad for the guy, but at the same time Allah blessed this girl with Islam and He erased sins. Maybe she changed and she does not want him anymore. It would not be good to encourage the guy to continue contact with her. If he decides to become a Muslim on his own, and Allah has destined for them to be together, then it will happen. If not, then they have to move on with their lives.