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Patude
Akhi can one leave masturbation without fasting? I tried fasting mondays and thursday i think for half an year but i think it did not really help, what is your opinion?
The one who ordered fasting for unmarried people was the prophet Muhammad PBUH himself (Bukhari and Muslim), you should fasting, and fasting is not just about holding your sexual desires, or prevent you to eat because you hunger, if you fasting just for that, then I doubt that you fasting correctly.
Akhi can one leave masturbation without fasting? if you mean self-sex of course you can, just stop doing it, who's preventing you to stop? it's yourself.
But why leave fasting? (caution I think shaytan is tricking you, if you count correctly you only fasting for 60 days, not even thousands or hundreds of days, and it just twice a week, in a state of self-discipline, they come to you and whisper that you should give up, fasting is not working)
Even though you are married, fasting is still sunnah, improve your fasting quality.
Did you do it on Mondays and Thursday?
- If no, then it mean it did prevent you even a bit. Now the question is why you don't do it on these days and for what reason? why can't you leave it on the other days?
and can't you improve it gradually?
- If yes, can you stop it just for these days?
and then improve it gradually?
You should give up watching porn and doing self-sex, but don't give up on fasting.
What about the girl that you wanted to married, but you need to graduated? have you graduated yet? Married is not just about sexual, what have you prepared for your spouse later?