As someone living in a country where most people dress modestly and feel ashamed of flirting brazenly, it's easier to understand that it's not only a case of making billions of rules and then skirting them, a person can easily fulfill all the stated apparent obligations - yet be the idol carrying the wine cup (poison ivy) of the carnival or shopping center with a bunch of sometimes giggling, and sometimes rough and rude boys on her trail.
Requires much personal deep thought - think for yourself as you're unlikely to be arrested by people here on earth - yet you may be arousing the jealousy of the One who actually loves you and cares for you and to whom you will return and answer for your inner secret feelings.