format_quote Originally Posted by
azc
^ It's due to misuse of women-empowerment
Hey...look. Allah love justice and hate injustice and oppression. As such..if women want empowerment then responsibilities must come with it. If women want to compete against men and take over men...then so does the responsibility that comes with it..or else all what feminist have done is is disrespect women, not to take women 100% seriously, to not to listen to women 100% seriously and show us that women are nothing more than little children who would never grow up. I doubt...women want this image about them. So if they want to be treated with respect, treated like a man or better than a man, or treated equally, or treated with empowerment then so should the responsibility that comes with it. If women want power then here is what should be done:
1) Women pay mahir to men
2) Women are the provider and protector to men
3) It is obligation for the women to go outside and work..while the men stay home and raise the children
4) Men should immediately have the custodial right to the children until otherwise specified that he is unfit to raising the children. If the court finds out she lied and said he rapes the children, abuse the children etc then she should go to prison and lose all right to the children and visitation right to the children.
5) As a woman who holds the power and card, what Islam teaches us and how to treat women and how the prophet treats their women...the wive need to do exactly the same to the husband. Remember, the women are the one who comes with more and responsibility so she need to be more patient with the behavior of her husband and if the husband misbehaves she deny him sex until he behaves (don't women do this already? LOL! ;D ;D ;D)
6) Aren't women already divorcing her husband? So you can see she already disbelieve in the ruling of Allah (so I ALREADY PROOFED TO YOU THAT WE ARE HAPPY TO DO SHIRK AND KUFIR WHEN IT COMES TO MEN'S RIGHT!)
7) She need to pay him mahir during the divorce period
8) It is obligation for the women to go outside and work..so her role is outside the home not inside the home.
9) Women need to stop looking pretty and cut her hair short and she need to develop body strength as she also need to be responsible in role of building buildings, homes and carrying heavy objects
10) It is obligation for the woman/women to stand up from the bus seat when the man is in front of her
Now...if you do that...I may consider the gaming field more just. Don't you agree? I mean if she wants to take over men's role and have his so called preavilage than she need to understand this is Earth and not paradise. Nothing comes for free. She need to be the man of the house. I think...and you may agree that if play this role reversal I am happy and content with the agreement. I can start finding a wi...oh by the way...I think it is only just too that the women is the one that seek out her husband and not the husband seeking her out. Come on....how can these women stand a man knocking on her doors asking her for marriage? Don't you feel insulted. You need to be empowered!
So for women who are willing to use alimony against your husband because of your female nature...understand what you are doing and saying. You believe in some of what Islam gives you and you disbelieve in some. These men who married these women need to understand that these women are not Muslim. They are Hypocrite. Which means they are the bottom of the hellfire..bottom, bottom..bottom. A real Muslim will not believe in some and disbelieve in some nor they will use Kufar laws to hurt their fellow Muslim. I think any men who have women do this to them must understand that her iman need to be questioned. At this point, I am happy to see what is in their true heart by coming to Kufar world.