Originally Posted by Guideseaker110
You don't have to marry anyone you don't feel attracted to or do not want to marry. However, you also shouldn't be fantasizing about someone else because that person may not be destined for you either and it will only cause you to have conflicted feelings when someone suitable does come along. Secondly, it is very possible to be attracted to someone later on even if you do not find them attractive initially. So if this person that your mother wants you to marry sounds suitable, maybe you should get to know him better? If you don't feel attracted to him at all and absolutely do not see anything evolving with him, then you don't have to marry him and your mother shouldn't pressure you to do so nor stand in your way if someone else comes along. If there are any close male relatives (father, uncle, grandfather) maybe you can ask for their help since they are your guardians.
Your mom probably views this person as someone who can take care of you and it eases her mind to know you'd be in a good family so perhaps this is one of the reasons she is trying to push you towards him. I don't think you should let it affect you too much, eventually she will understand that you just don't want him, but for now you shouldn't feel to discouraged or negative towards her or the situation of marriage in general.