Inspiring manners

[jameelash]

seven. Here is a reminder of them:

A proud person does not recognise their mistakes and does not accept to be rebuked. They do everything to not be rebuked, and apparently it’s because they don’t want to displease or disappoint anyone but in reality, they don’t want to go through the humiliation of being disciplined.
A proud person does not ask for help. But when they ask it is usually too late, because they resisted until there was no hope. And by this time, usually she has already made the wrong choice. Sinned against God and even separated from her husband.
A proud person does not ask for forgiveness. They may even regret it, but are unable to expose their repentance, because it’s humiliating for them; they prefer to pretend that nothing happened.
A proud person does not submit easily. They may be submissive but only to those who have authority over them. Many wives do not accept to submit to their husbands, daughters don’t accept to submit to their parents, young people don’t accept to submit to their elders, newbies don’t accept to submit to the most experienced.
A proud person likes their independence; in fact, they hate relying on others. They like to do everything on their own, so that they don’t have to say that they needed someone’s help. They are independent even from God, they don’t pray or seek Him, they think they are self-sufficient.
A proud person wants everything their way because they think they know what’s best, they understand what’s best, and know what’s best. They don’t want to know God’s will and sometimes insist that they’re “using their faith” and they know what they are doing. And when they don’t receive what they asked God for, they revolt against Him as if God were in the wrong.
A proud person likes to give their opinion about everything, they don’t like to take nonsense from anybody, and they don’t hesitate confronting someone to say what they think is right.
Cristiane Cardoso

[Physicist]

Do you mean inspiring manners among what is critisized here?
Indeed, this text is quite messy, different, sometime mutually exclusive manners, was assigned with the same word "proud".

A proud person likes to give their opinion about everything, they don’t like to take nonsense from anybody, and they don’t hesitate confronting someone to say what they think is right.

Perhaps inspiring manner here is CONFIDENCE.
If one has what to say, he has to step out and say. If he says stupidity, then he would be criticized.

But this contemporary to...

A proud person does not recognise their mistakes and does not accept to be rebuked. They do everything to not be rebuked, and apparently it’s because they don’t want to displease or disappoint anyone but in reality, they don’t want to go through the humiliation of being disciplined.

May be inspiring manner here is WISDOM? :)

Same about asking for help.
Good manner is never to ask (demand) for help, but let others know about problems, thus giving them free choice either to help either to ignore without appealing for their guilt feeling.

And independent person in fact rely on Allah only, not on master's mood. Perhaps author is just angry at his wife.