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Aaima zahid
Asslamoalikum,
Greetings to all.
My cousin recently got divorced. And she wants to get married again but her father and step mother is not letting that happen.
So i want to know that when a girl have to marry first time she needs permission from her father and grandfather but for second married it’s not necessary she wants know Is it okay if she gets married even her father is not agree with the proposal she have... i mean she is afraid that her father will get angry maybe he never talk to her .. Maybe Allah will get angry but the proposal she have will give her chance to meet with her 5 years old daughter.
Walaikumasalam
First its family matter so better they do decide by themselves.
Secondly she want to marry her old husband or another husband.
If she wants to marry her old husband. Then its very good thing amd parents must not interfere by keeping them separate
As in quran
وبعولتعن أحق بردهن في ذالك أن أرادوا إصلاحا baqrah 228
Means their ex husbands do have alot of rights than other persons to get remarried
So her father must let her go.
Second is hope her first husbadn not gave her three talaqs.
Third is yes she can go to get married without their permission.
If she marrying new person still she get married without their permissions.
But the new husband must have same status or higher than girl's family status
But its better to make them accept. Because how long girl will be on her father shoulders. And also one day they will die so who will care her. Also human have lust and lust is not bad thing. Bad thing is that fullfilling the lust by wrong methods like adultery.
So who will be responsible for that.
I advise that she must contact her father' brother uncle and mother'brothers etc to motivate the acceptance. If that new man is really such reliable as he showing or the old husband who showing such acts of relibility to get married again with that girl.