Originally Posted by Studentofdeed
The thing is you have to understasnd how Allah (swt) deals with us.
Many times we blame Allah (swt) for not granting us x, y and z but reality and harsh truth is we didnt put in the work.
When i didnt do too well in my exams, i blamed Allah, thinking Allah let me down, or Allah didnt want that for me.
Actually there was a flipside to that coin, I didnt put in the work, i relied on Allah without doing enough homework and ground-work.
Allah has systems in place.
Allah will help you but you have to do the ground work.
Now to your problems (highlighted in red from your post)...
1. Why do you care what other people think so much ?
2. Why is it impossible for your to get a wife ?
Also why do you think wife, kids, and good life should come easy ? It doesnt come easy for anyone.
Even people who dont believe in Allah have to work day and night to get a family and maintain it.
It takes work, it takes effort.
Thats what this life is about. Work and effort. More work and more effort.
Everyone complains about their lot in life, but Allah already told you in this life you cant have anything unless...
you strive for it.
Pick yourself back up, dust yourself off and re-build whatever part of your life (financial, emotional, spiritual etc) is broken.
We are not sat in Heaven that Allah should give us whatever we wish, or give us a easy life.
We are in Dunya, we are still in the Arena.