Assalam o Alaikum Rahamutullahi barakuthu.
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Studentofdeed
On top of that when i am hanging out with
friends, i keep joking and saying just kidding but hadith said jokes are
impressible and the joke with falsehood will take the person deeper to
hell the more laughs he got...I do not feel good right now.
jokes are permissible. there is restriction on it though, Prophet peace be upon him did tell some jokes before. However he was moderate. He also told us to tell truth when it comes to joke.
https://islamqa.info/en/answers/2217...issible-joking
My dear brother, you don't have to help too much, that's just extreme. Be moderate. Also help your family no matter what, because Allah ordered us to be good to our parents.
It seems you have issues with your mental health, you should do more dikhr, thinking of Allah positively, and His blessings, He bestowed on you over some people, this will make you feel comfortable, If He gave you foods when you were hungry, say thanks to Him, if He gave you water when you were thirsty, say thanks to Him, if He gave you clothing when you were naked, say thanks to Him, that's true mercy of Allah, there are many africian Muslims, who probably don't have these blessing but they still thank Allah . You can also visit doctor. Don't think of your deeds as useless. that's not good. Just put strong faith and trust in Allah alone. don't think of people. These days, human beings have became careless of each other. even among the Muslims. Allah cares about you lot. Just keep your intention toward Him. Do good deeds only for His sake. Don't think of your deeds as useless, you're going to let shaytan hurt you with his whispering. Just ignore it. Be moderate in your habit. Going extreme won't help. Islam is simple and forgiving religion. Good deeds gets mulitpied in sha Allah, if good intention on that act is fulfiled. Renew your intentions on every permissible acts you do, like that you want to sleep to get more energy for ibadat act, that sleep turns into act of worship.
Love u my bro for sake of Allah.
JazakAllah khair.