format_quote Originally Posted by
Ahmed.
MashAllah Sister you are doing the right thing by prioritising the unity of the family as we don't want one evil to result in a greater one. Kids that are taken into care often end up being sexually abused by evil pedo's who run the care homes
How can you be so short sighted? She is already being abused in her own house. That's fine with you, it is also okay with you if she shares her story with strangers but its somehow very un-Islamic for her to tell that to her own dad? Where do you read this sort of stuff?
format_quote Originally Posted by
Ahmed.
I think the elder sister (your friend) and her younger sister should both confront the mother privately and threaten to tell their dad., and if that don't work, then threaten to tell social. This would put an end to this evil InshAllah
They already tried that and it did not work.
format_quote Originally Posted by
Ahmed.
Maybe the 14 year old is not resisting much which gives mum the impression she may like it, so she has to be very vocal in insisting this stops or else!
Just WOW! Put yourself in her shoes, if you want to know the pain she goes through. If you can't speak good, may be keep quite.
format_quote Originally Posted by
Ahmed.
There's all sorts of Muslim principles to be taken into account here such as, keep a Muslim's sin secret
and Allah will keep yours secret on judgement day, forgiveness,
Next time you see a Muslim raping a girl, just don't say anything because according to you, that's a right thing because you are hiding the sin of a Muslim. I am literally speechless on this interpretation.
format_quote Originally Posted by
Ahmed.
respect for mum despite her evils etc etc
only if she is remorseful and changes her attitude. If she is not, then Islam does not ask you to be respectful to such parents. Islamic teachings comes first and what she did to this kid is not Islamic<< PERIOD>>
format_quote Originally Posted by
Ahmed.
and above all, the all important family unity, hence going down the non Muslim way of whistle blowing and making all hell break loose isn't right for us too unless all other options are exhausted
Which family are you talking about? Family where mother can keep abusing her kids at the name of so called Islam? When kids are not safe at their own home, that means the family has already broken. It is only a matter of time, this girl will most likely run away from this prison if no one hears her pain and agony.
There is nothing personal between you and I and I apologize if anything I said above hurt your feelings. I just can't stand when people provide their own interpretation of Islam to give an advice but in reality, their advice has no basis and no grounds to be found in Islam. Its fine if you want to give any advice, but please don't associate that with Islam. All what you said has nothing to do with Islam and I want to make that clear.
Ma'a Salama