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pmjHossain
07-16-2020, 05:51 AM
assalamu alaikum
if a person gets waswas about conditional Divorce and he thinks it will not happen and says not but while saying this if he stutters and say n.n.not then will it be any Divorce?
how to ignore these waswas?
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eesa the kiwi
07-16-2020, 06:45 AM
Asalamu alaikum wa rahmatullah wa barakatu

I approved the thread so inshaAllah your last line can be addressed by our members

How to deal with the waswas.

You have made a lot of threads asking questions about divorce fiqh but those answers aren't what you need. It's how to deal with the waswas

Reach out for help not only to the ulema living in your locality but also mental health professionals. It must be really miserable to live like this but you dont have to

Reach out for help brother
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'Abdullah
07-16-2020, 07:28 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by pmjHossain
assalamu alaikum
if a person gets waswas about conditional Divorce and he thinks it will not happen and says not but while saying this if he stutters and say n.n.not then will it be any Divorce?
how to ignore these waswas?
Wa Alaikum Assalam WaRahmatullhi WaBarakatuhu,

What is the reason that you have these Waswas about divorce? Are you under pressure from anyone to divorce your wife? The reason could be any but you may have to address it to get rid of these Waswas.

Others have already suggested you to seek professionals help to overcome your stress, anxiety and fear. Contact your local scholars, discuss these issues with them and ask for their advice.

I can also give you my opinion if that helps:

Based on your 20+ posts on the same topic, it is clear that you are not in a right mind set. One of the conditions for divorce to be valid is that a person should be sane and be fully aware of what he is saying and with the consequence of his words. For example, if a person is so angry that he does not know what he is saying or doing then divorce does NOT occur even if he gives divorce.
https://islamqa.info/en/answers/4517...oment-of-anger
So don’t worry, there is no divorce. The moment you start ignoring these Waswas, they will disappear.

There is also a very important rule in Fiq that CERTAINTY IS NOT REMOVED BY DOUBT. You are doubtful about the divorce, so throw your doubts away and stick to what is certain.


I hope you find this helpful. Please contact some professional to deal with your stress issues and try to resolve the issue which is resulting in these doubts.

May Allah make it easy for you. Ameen!
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