This makes me sad

[anonymous]

Can a husband really dictate everything the wife does as long as it is not over burdening and against the will of Allah?

I think one time I was looking up whether a wife can cut her hair without husbands permission and it was deemed impermissible. So husbands can really force their wives to look a certain way? Sometimes Women get annoyed of having long hair that may look beautiful to their husband.. Im not saying that she’d trim it to look ugly but just to a point where it satisfies herself. it isnt like shes being ungrateful or rude. i really think that the wife’s HAPPINESS AND SATISFACTION matters. I’m starting to doubt. Literally every matter, “obedience to the husband”. Would it be haram for a man to cut his hair without the permission of his wife?

[Studentofdeed]

Did you ask ur husband if you could keep it short?