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Islami.mu'min
She should maintain ties with her family... Your dad shouldn't be talking like that but she shouldn't have to sacrifice one for the other. Whats happened as of now, is your sister going to still marry him?
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wa alaykum assalam warahmatullahi wa barakatu
ive tried my bestest to persuade her not to, told her about a decision like this should involve all family members, it should be unanimous, all or nothing else will make existing family to split/dis-unite,
forces of the heart are too strong, so it is only a waiting game.
when you are absoloutly desperate to get married and you think you've found the one and you think this guy is the last man on the planet and you thinik theres no one better out there and you are fed up of looking , what are the chances of someone doing a u-turn on it,
got a feeling my sister will go through some purification, her life will be turned upside down, she will learn a great deal of wisdom from it, however there may be children in the end who will endure the suffering...