I came across the following:
The Prophet (ﷺ) said, "A believer is not stung twice (by something) out of one and the same hole."
حَدَّثَنَا قُتَيْبَةُ، حَدَّثَنَا اللَّيْثُ، عَنْ عُقَيْلٍ، عَنِ الزُّهْرِيِّ، عَنِ ابْنِ الْمُسَيَّبِ، عَنْ أَبِي هُرَيْرَةَ ـ رضى الله عنه ـ عَنِ النَّبِيِّ صلى الله عليه وسلم أَنَّهُ قَالَ " لاَ يُلْدَغُ الْمُؤْمِنُ مِنْ جُحْرٍ وَاحِدٍ مَرَّتَيْنِ ".
|| : Sahih al-Bukhari 6133
|| : Book 78, Hadith 160
|USC-MSA web (English) reference
|| : Vol. 8, Book 73, Hadith 154
Can we have a discussion about this please, more so related to marriage etc. I could do with some advice and guidance on how we apply this hadeeth to our life especially when seeking a spouse and how far and how much we can apply it.
I know we must tie our camel, take precautions, stop everything if there is doubt etc.
For example if someone fails to follow steps in a marriage first time round and it fails due to ignorance, are we safe to apply this hadeeth (and what we learnt from our mistakes) going forward for any proposals and marriages for one self and anyone else who asks for advice?
Please remember me and my family in your dua's
Jazak Allah Khair in advance.