Assalamo alaykum wa rahmatullahe wa barakatuhuHow to reply to you? For a quality answer I think adfitional information are needed, like where you live, your age, education, finances...if you are ready for marriage?You said you did not respect boudaries, how, when?You seem to love her looks obviously?Do religious woman post a lot on Instagram?What does she post?How old us she, what is her ede and job background?How did you get account info as kids obviously are not capeble of it?This is not for mosque, sending "likes".Is she married, who is her family?Would you love marrying her?Where would you live?Your story seems a lot unrealistic, but still possible. Please have more sabr and calm down.Even in marriage we need gentleness.
https://www.abuaminaelias.com/dailyh...kindness/There is a post I started before, I think useful to you.Please read and implement with links:
https://www.islamicboard.com/islamic...#post3043272It would be good to start stopt relying much on instagram.After you improve youtself and get clear intentions for marriage, seek her family for marriage if you still think shes the right one devission until death.