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anonymous
I've by chance discovered pictures and videos of my sister in laws naked (well they're not married yet she's been his GF for almost a year now) on my husbands work computer. Some of these pictures and videos are explicit. They've been downloaded from snapchat. Looks like he may have access to my brother in laws snapchat and that's how he's downloaded them. I've not approached my husband with this and I don't know if I should. I feel really hurt and disturbed. Surely, this isnt right even if it is downloaded by mistake? He should have immediately deleted them. I also just don't like how his behaviour is towards her. He's a bit too free with her if you know what I mean. A bit extra calling her nicknames which is not right. I've never said anything in the past because if I say anything he's always has a defence and calls me jealous or extreme.
Can I please get some advice as to what I should do?
Assaalam alaykum ,
First ,is he treating you badly ?. Or is it effecting your relation ?.
If not .then you should be quiet . because sometimes what we see isn't the truth .
I know you have seen it yourself. But actually everything have two sides .we can't judge a picture from one side .always try to see the both sides .
Maybe what you are thinking is not the truth.maybe.........
If it is something which you are thinking then these pictures must have been hidden. They should not be in his work computer. If really what you are thinking is the truth so you have never seen these pictures .it can be coincidence.but I don't think so .
You should talk to him if you have an issue.
But don't misunderstand anyone by one side . If they are effecting your relation then you should talk to him . Believe is the first condition of the relation.
It is my opinion.
Be patient.
If have told something bad or any word of mine hurst you .I am extremely sorry.please forgive me.
Jazaki Allahu khairen