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Muhammad Arham
"they" means to whom my mother is Bait. Bait means when you put your hand in the hand of a pious person and take an oath of allegiance. The person whom you choose to take bait with must be a person who has taqwa, abides by all the laws of the Shariah, has humility and he is a person who has permission to make mureeds.I have no idea, either they've done isthikara of my mom's behalf to see if my life is compatible with her or not.. and they have said, "you must think about it before doing".. means they are not in favour of this marriage. While they said, "yes this girl is good for him" for my brother because he liked a girl too.
Wait, this starts to sound very fishy all of a sudden. you must take an oath of allegiance for his services? what kind of allegiance?
Do I have to promise to never tell anyone? do I have to bring certain personal stuff? What do I have to promise?
do I also have to pay? If a scheich asks for such things, you immediately know that there is someting not quite right.
I would leave immediately if a sheich asked me to do something like that.
The person whom you choose to take bait with must be a person who has taqwa, abides by all the laws of the Shariah, has humility and he is a person who has permission to make mureeds.
This still does not guarantee whether the person is good or evil. he could have aquired all his papers and permissions and gone ashtray after it.
I do not want to judge someone based on some sentences about him on the internet, but this sounds very suspicious to me right now. I would stay away from them as far as possible. They might know a thing or few with the help of jinn or so, but believe absolutely no information that would be beneficial for you or your mom.