your worst habits

[Sahabiyaat]

:-[ well go on then

[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'Alaykum

i dont think so missy... u first

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

You know, I have an even better idea.

Rather than making topics of no use like this, why not make topics like "why do you love Allah?", "what deeds are you most consistant in?", "what drives you to become a better Muslim" etc.

Don't you think we should make topics of such so others can gain inspiration from them? Or do you have enough free time on the web? Remember, just talking about Allah, even thinking/reading about Him is a great reward in itself.

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

A habit of mines is to spoil other peoples so called fun. :)

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[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'Alaykum

Mashallah Br.KI why such a gr8 topic! why didnt u start one yourself. actions speak louder then words...

[Far7an]

Maybe if we identify our worst habits, we can rectify them and become a better person Bi'idhnillah. :)

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

Why? Well I'm not the one who has enough free time to start topics. Why is it the person who tries to make things better, always gets a finger back? Ya Allah!

[Sahabiyaat]

:sl:

as umar said to the woman i am right and u r wrong,..

ur right brother and i am wrong

i'm sorry for putting this up i just wanted to know.

:w:

[Far7an]

i'm sorry for putting this up i just wanted to know.

Dont be, read my post ^^

[Sahabiyaat]

see..theres an advantage.... :applaud:
i'll step out of the way....u carry on list ur habits.*cough*...um..i have a lesson to get to *slips away*
:)
:w:

[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'Alaykum

muslimah habibity :love: chill...if people really we really want to make thinsg better we should follow the way of the nabi S.a.w. and how he would do it. not embarress ppl in public... inshallah your next thread can be about Islam. :) but there is nothing wrong with having hala fun. and like what br. farhan said we can try to help and change each other so maybe by this thread ppl can change :) to better.

May Allah make us sincere and guide us ~ameen~

[Ra`eesah]

Asalamu Alaikum

Why? Well I'm not the one who has enough free time to start topics. Why is it the person who tries to make things better, always gets a finger back? Ya Allah!

br. starting a topic takes as much as time as replying to a topic... incase u didnt know. :D unless u have a LOOOOOOOOOOOOOONg topic in mind

[Far7an]

Ok, how about someone starts posting there habits??

Forget this talk :)

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

Maybe if the starting of the topic would've said so, no one would've minded. It seemed pretty obvious someone just wanted to know peoples bad habits. Not listen to them and rectify them.

[Far7an]

wow, im seeing some bad habits without people stating them :)

Subhanallah

[Brother_Mujahid]

wow, im seeing some bad habits without people stating them :)

Subhanallah

hahaha *this is mine* ;D

[Abdalla]

You know what mine is mujahid -(tip....what i would love to do to you from this forum!)

[Ra`eesah]

Ok, how about someone starts posting there habits??

Forget this talk :)

Bismillaah

-I jump out of bed.... :sister:

( scares who ever is in the room at the time)

-I eat ice :D

-im constantly flossing or brushing my teeth.

-Always say "Duhhh"

(use to be DUDE then my dad told me to stop since dude in arabic ment worm. so then it was replaced with Duuhhh...
everytime i wanted to say dude i would quikly change it to duuuuuuuuuh....)

ok....i'll observe myself a little more.

[S_87]

dont know

[Danish]

:sl:
* Sarcastic -- some ppl dont the meaning of joke and r too sensitive
* Spend too much time on internet
* Dont do much college/house work... :p

[Ra`eesah]

errrm Bad habits, many do i hv :-[

1) Steal DPs ;) [a bad habit really ???]

:mad: very BAD!

[Danish]

:sl:

1) Steal DPs [a bad habit really ]

tut tut, what will ur parents say...tut tut stealing...kids nowadays, eh

[SalafiFemaleJih]

14 hours of sleep
10 hours of internet
yelling at my cute lil sisters
not cleaning my room
spending more than an hour chatting online
in class never concentrate on studies always talking!!
when midterm comes I never study( like today...i have a midterm exam)
I never do my own laundry(i don even remmeber if i ever touched my own dirty clothes)

I could go on forever....

walaikum salaaam wr wb.

[Brother_Mujahid]

errrm Bad habits, many do i hv :-[

mention the most :
1) Steal DPs ;) [a bad habit really ???]
2) Irritate lil SISs till she starts crying :p

DPs? ???

[Uthman]

1. data processing.
2. dew point.
3. displaced person.
4. double play. ???

[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'ALaykum

Display Pics.

[Ansar Al-'Adl]

Stealing display pics???

[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'Alaykum

yes.... he steals display pictures.

[Ansar Al-'Adl]

Whos??? How??? Where???

*don't understand*

[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'Alaykum

Its ok Br. Ansa Al haq.... its ok... but your br. zAk is a thief.........

[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'ALaykum

Another bad habit is i drive everywhere...... even if its a couple of blocks down to my cousins house....

[Far7an]

laziness, tsk tsk

My bad habit is taking mistakes out of other people

[BlissfullyJaded]

:sl:

Er..being overly quiet at times.. Makes ppl nervous around me. :'(

And procastinating things. Takin care of that tho. :D

[Ra`eesah]

:sl:

And procastinating things. Takin care of that tho. :D

and just when will u take care of it might i ask.

;D ;D ;D ;D

[BlissfullyJaded]

:sl:

*raises eyebrows*

In a couple days. ;D

Naw man, I'm takin care of it right now. :D I actually got a lot done today. :D

[Ra`eesah]

Assalamu'Alaykum

^^^ u quite HA! yea right.....

[Sahabiyaat]

all dne.

i think many ppl have my bad habit
the twp prayers i find difficult to read
fajr - too tired to get up
Isha - too tired to get up.
the rest i can do . :)

oh and recently have acquired another strange habit...wen i'm sitting there bored ...i play with my eyelashes :confused: ...lol got told off so many tyms 4 that....but i dnt see why its so bad ???

[Sahabiyaat]

oh and .....i occasionally listen to music :-[
this is my worst habit and i really wnna get rid of it
b4 i was hooked onto music ....then i got better and developed more self restraint and now its just the odd song on t.v or the net so i'm getting better
but i really want to stop listening to music full stop
help me pwease . :)

[aamirsaab]

[QUOTE=muslimahimprovin]all dne.

i think many ppl have my bad habit
the twp prayers i find difficult to read
fajr - too tired to get up
Isha - too tired to get up.
the rest i can do . :)
QUOTE]

Ditto sis - too difficult to pray fajr and isha when they are at extremes of the day!
I also tend to talk too much on internet but dont say anything in class. dunno if that is bad habit though?

[Uthman]

errrm Bad habits, many do i hv :-[

mention the most :
1) Steal DPs ;) [a bad habit really ???]

:omg::omg::omg: Naughty boy!

As for me. uhhhhhh . . . . the only one I'll say is boring biting my fingernails. :) I'm not saying no more. :)

:w:

[S_87]

i have a very very very sweet tooth

[MetSudaisTwice]

i don't really like biting my nails, i prefer to cut my nails with a nailcutter

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

Has it occured to you yet that some of you including the topic starter are confessing to sins they commit? Is this a good thing to do? Revealing sins?

Hmm, maybe what I said was stupid after all. May Allah help us all. Ameen.

[Ra`eesah]

i have a very very very sweet tooth

TOOTH *scuffs* ,,,, lucky!

ALL my teeth are sweet....

[MetSudaisTwice]

you bros and sis eat too much sweet, you need to cut down quick

[S_87]

i thought i posted but looks like it dint come through
osman biting nails can lead to leprosy..stop karoh!!!!

[Sahabiyaat]

Asalamu Alaikum

Has it occured to you yet that some of you including the topic starter are confessing to sins they commit? Is this a good thing to do? Revealing sins?

Hmm, maybe what I said was stupid after all. May Allah help us all. Ameen.

were not revealing each others sins just our own
i'm sure theres nothing wrong with that ..however u being br.Kerned will find another fault soon right :)

[MetSudaisTwice]

can it seriously lead to leprosy?

[S_87]

you bros and sis eat too much sweet, you need to cut down quick

its a smyptom ;D (have i spelt that wrong :-[ ) ?


and yh it can lead to leprosy
for children its also connected to psychological problems

[Lateralus63]

My worst habit...hmm, not tidiying things up, my room is an absolute tip 99.9% of the time, which is tragic.

Yes its spelt "symptoms" (sorry but im a real nag when it comes to literacy)

And concerning sugar, too much sugar leads to hyperactivity in children, but also in adults, although, i would say with adults its more like saying tactless things.

[S_87]

yh symptom
i knew i spelt it right :D
the m was misplaced by mistake ;D

[S_87]

sugar is the best :thumbs_up

thats my secret ingredient in everything i make ;) add in sugar and honey ;D

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

however u being br.Kerned will find another fault soon right

Are you trying to mock me? I'm only pointing out what you should not do, should you feel the need to mock me, do it freely. I pray Allah has mercy upon you.

...the case of Maa’iz when he confessed to having committed zina – that it is mustahabb for the one who falls into a similar sin to repent to Allaah and conceal his sin and not mention it to anyone, as Abu Bakr and ‘Umar said to Maa’iz. Whoever discovers anything of that nature should conceal it according to what we have mentioned; he should not expose it or refer the matter to the ruler, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said in this story: “If you had concealed it with your garment it would have been better for you.” Hence al-Shaafa’i (may Allaah be pleased with him) said: “If a person commits a sin and Allaah conceals it for him, I prefer for him to conceal it too and to repent,” and he quoted as evidence the story of Maa’iz with Abu Bakr and ‘Umar.

Fath al-Baari, 12/124, 125

Are you convinvced now sister muslimahimprovin? I remember, when I first said this was not a good idea, but then you said you will benefit from it. So far, it looks like you've lost out. I was only there to advise you, not put you down and make you feel bad about yourself.

May Allah guide us all.

[Far7an]

I dont think she meant anything bad by it :)

Barakallah feek KI for that reminder.

[MetSudaisTwice]

good comment bro
may allah guide us all

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

Maybe if we identify our worst habits, we can rectify them and become a better person Bi'idhnillah.

Brother, I'm sure you had good intentions, but it seems like no one is even trying to rectify themselves. No one's giving advice on how to overcome their habits, and as I predicted, this topic was just made for a laugh, just like the other one.

[MetSudaisTwice]

but bro younever know, some people may take this seriously, (not me! i know its for a laugh)

[Far7an]

MashaAllah, good point

I will start in that case

Since my bad habit is taking mistakes out of others, maybe it would be a good idea for us to take our own mistakes out. We will benefit more this way InshaAllah :)

[MetSudaisTwice]

yes bro good point inshallah people will learn from this

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

But you will need to be extremely carefull and not reveal that which is classed as a sin.

I don't really understand why a topic is needed in this matter, can't you just PM the person and tell them their bad habits? I'm sure as muslims we're not supposed to mock anyone in a publicised manner and make a subject out of them.

[MetSudaisTwice]

yeah i think that is a wise option, they should PM the person

[Z]

Asalamu Alaikum

...and less you have a really low self esteem and think it's fun to tell others the bad habits that you have?

Don't you still think this topic was created for a laugh?

[MetSudaisTwice]

i don't know really thats why am not really nvolved in this thread

[Far7an]

Thread Closed.
feel free to me pm me InshaAllah, if you have a problem:)