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anonymous
06-29-2006, 09:48 AM
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i am a muslm sister going through some rough times.
i have reenctly gone through a peroid of wallahu alm, servre wiswaas. During which i have come to realise that i have done/felt/said some things which may have taken me out of the fold of islam.
my lastest one is: i remeber a few months ago that I was reading this islamic book and suddenly i found myself thinking/feeling (i dont even remeber which) that it wasn't true. I also remember that i fought with myself not too think like that.
my question is, does this take me out of the fold of islam?? how do i expiate. do i do the ghusl etc etc.
now, if that is what i have to do, does everything whch i have done in the past (mistakes), are they wiped away. because everytime i think of soomething which I have done, which may have taken me out of the fold of islam, i keep on during wodoo. do i repent?? or what??


Last thing inshallah, how does one stick to the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah, and be strong against those who make the halal haram and vice versa. Im just so scared that I'll one day become weak and lazy, and that I'll follow other than the quran and sunnah and that someone will advice me to do the haraam. eg 'allow' what is haraam and vise versa. What if I get advice like that and become tempted to follow it. Any suggestions how to avoid that?? The first thing that comes to my mind is get to know the deen. But im thinking if im afraid of reading things, or just generally gaining knowledge and taking what I read or even know out of context than that may be a problem. Get my drift??

jazakallahu kahir
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IbnAbdulHakim
06-29-2006, 10:18 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Alpha Dude
My advice: (Sincerly) ask Allah to guide you. Do this constantly.
:salamext:

Wallahi i cant think of anything better then this...

but ikhlaas (sincerity) is extremely important...

:wasalamex
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Muslim Knight
06-29-2006, 10:21 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by anonymous
:sl:
i am a muslm sister going through some rough times.
i have reenctly gone through a peroid of wallahu alm, servre wiswaas. During which i have come to realise that i have done/felt/said some things which may have taken me out of the fold of islam.
my lastest one is: i remeber a few months ago that I was reading this islamic book and suddenly i found myself thinking/feeling (i dont even remeber which) that it wasn't true. I also remember that i fought with myself not too think like that.
my question is, does this take me out of the fold of islam?? how do i expiate. do i do the ghusl etc etc.
now, if that is what i have to do, does everything whch i have done in the past (mistakes), are they wiped away. because everytime i think of soomething which I have done, which may have taken me out of the fold of islam, i keep on during wodoo. do i repent?? or what??
I remember reading a book on Tawbah (Repentance) by Sheikh Yusuf Al-Qardhawi. A person, regardless whether he does sins being aware of it or unwittingly, needs to repent every now and then. We're not perfect (even those shaykhs), but we can choose to work towards perfection. It's not the destination that matters, but the efforts put and the sincerity in our hearts that counts. Those are the things that Allah wants to see in the hearts of believers.

Allah accepts the repentance of those who do evil in ignorance and repent soon afterwards; to them will Allah turn in mercy: For Allah is full of knowledge and wisdom. (Q 4:17)

On the authority of Hadrat Anas (may Allāh be pleased with him) who said: I heard Allāh's Prophetic Messenger (may Allāh's blessings and peace be upon him) say:

Allāh the Almighty said: O Son of Ādam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Ādam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask for forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you; O son of Ādam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great as it. (Tirmidhī) (Hadīth Qudsī)

Sister, you can go through this link Repentance and read up on Repentance. The explanations are clear and comprehensive. Tawbah is obligatory upon every Muslim, but one has first to acquire knowledge on repentance and how to make it.

If you are afraid that your actions may take you outside the fold of Islam you must discontinue it. Avoid doing it. Then affirm your shahadah La ila ha ilaLlah Muhammadur RasuluLlah. Convince yourself that you are a Muslim and that you are a servant of Allah. Make du'a to Allah asking for His forgiveness and that He forgives you for your sins. You must have hope on Allah. Know that Allah loves those who repent and those who wants to be close to Him.

Know they not that Allah doth accept repentance from His votaries and receives their gifts of charity, and that Allah is verily He, the Oft-Returning, Most Merciful? (Q 9:104)

NEVER DESPAIR Someone might say, 'I want to repent but my sins are too many.' But Allaah says: "SAY: O MY SLAVES WHO HAVE TRANSGRESSED AGAINST THEMSELVES! DESPAIR NOT FOR THE MERCY OF ALLAAH, VERILY ALLAAH FORGIVES ALL SINS. TRULY HE IS OFT FORGIVING, MOST MERCIFUL." [Az-Zumar (39):53]

Last thing inshallah, how does one stick to the teachings of the Quran and Sunnah, and be strong against those who make the halal haram and vice versa. Im just so scared that I'll one day become weak and lazy, and that I'll follow other than the quran and sunnah and that someone will advice me to do the haraam. eg 'allow' what is haraam and vise versa. What if I get advice like that and become tempted to follow it. Any suggestions how to avoid that?? The first thing that comes to my mind is get to know the deen. But im thinking if im afraid of reading things, or just generally gaining knowledge and taking what I read or even know out of context than that may be a problem. Get my drift??
As for the last part, I'm afraid I'm not equipped to answer. Maybe others can assist you. What is more important is that you must work towards having good company i.e. good Muslimah friends that will be there to guide you. Avoiding bad company i.e. bad friends will minimize bad influence that they might have on you. Be active in searching for pious friends. I'm sure you will not have trouble looking for some in this forum.

wayakum
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learningislam
06-29-2006, 11:08 AM
Assalamualaikum ....
sister...May Allah Almighty help you.
I wanted to share this. Hope it helps.

Waswaas (insinuating thoughts from Shaytaan)
SHAKAWA WAHULOOL
PROBLEMS AND SOLUTIONS
English Translation
Book by Sheikh Muhammad Salih Al-Munajjid



The Messenger (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The Shaytaan may come to any one of you and say, ‘Who created Allah?’ If any one of you experiences this, let him say, ‘Aamantu billaahi wa rasoolih (I believe in Allah and His Messenger),’ and that will drive him away.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 1657). The Messenger of Allah (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The Shaytaan may come to any one of you and ask, ‘Who created the heaven?’ and he will say, ‘Allah.’ The Shaytaan will say, ‘Who created the earth?’ and he will say, ‘Allah.’ Then the Shaytaan will say, ‘Who created Allah?’ If any one of you experiences this, let him say, ‘Aamantu billaahi wa rasoolih.’” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 1656).

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Whoever experiences anything of this waswaas, let him say three times, ‘‘Aamantu billaahi wa rasoolih,’ and that will drive (the Shaytaan) away.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 6587).

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The Shaytaan may come to any one of you, and say, ‘Who created such-and-such? Who created such-and-such?’ until he asks, ‘Who created your Lord?’ If this happens to anyone, let him seek refuge with Allah and let him stop these thoughts.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 7993).

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “The people will nearly ask too many questions, so that one of them may say, ‘Allah created all of creation, but who created Allah?’ If they say this, then say: ‘Allah is the One, Allah is the Self-Sufficient Master. He begets not, nor was He begotten; and there is none co-equal or comparable unto Him’ [al-Ikhlaas 112:1-4, interpretation of the meaning], and spit (drily) to your left three times, and seek refuge with Allah from the Shaytaan.” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 8182).

The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Think about the signs of Allah, do not think about Allah (Himself).” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 2975) The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Think about the creation of Allah, do not think about Allah (Himself).” (Saheeh al-Jaami’, 2976)
From these texts we may summarize the following six ways of overcoming these insinuating thoughts:
· The person who is experiencing such ideas should say, “Aamantu billaahi wa rasoolih (I believe in Allah and His Messenger).”
· He should seek refuge with Allah from the accursed Shaytaan, and say , “A’oodhu billaahi’ min al-Shaytaan ir-rajeem, "
· He should spit (drily) to his left three times.
· He should stop thinking about whatever it is that is on his mind, as the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him) said: “Let him stop.” This is an important tactic, because continuing to allow the Shaytaan to influence one in this way can only make it worse. The Muslim must stop these thoughts, as much as he is able, and keep his mind busy with something useful and beneficial.
· He should recite Soorat al-Ikhlaas (Qul huwa Allahu ahad), because it describes attributes of the Most Merciful and is considered to be equivalent to one-third of the Qur’aan. Reciting this great soorah will guarantee an end to these insinuating thoughts.
· He should think about the creation and blessings of Allah, not about His nature, because his weak human mind can never comprehend the nature of Allah. Allah says (interpretation of the meaning): “… and they will never compass anything of His Knowledge” [Ta-Ha 20:110]


There is this Dua in The Quran: Do read it and Allah will help you inshaAllah
And say "O my Lord! I seek refuge with Thee from the suggestions of the Evil Ones.And I seek refuge with Thee O my Lord! lest they should come near me."
Ayah 97,98 Surah Al-Mumenoon (the believers)
وَقُل رَّبِّ أَعُوذُ بِكَ مِنْ هَمَزَاتِ الشَّيَاطِينِ وَأَعُوذُ بِكَ رَبِّ أَن يَحْضُرُونِ

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- Qatada -
06-29-2006, 02:00 PM
:salamext:

This is from another post, so some things might not relate to you. But its referring to the waswasa (satanic whispers) so it might be of some help insha'Allaah.



jazak Allaah khayr for explaining your situation, because the cure to ignorance is asking, as our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace and blessings be upon him and his beloved family) said.



I just want you to know that what you are experiencing now is quite common to happen to the believer (the mu'min) and it is a sign of faith. In islam, its called waswasa (the whisperings of satan) and it is one of the ways shaytan will try to put someone off the right path.


Its also important to remember that one of the main reasons you feel weak is because you believe in Allaah, but you don't have any evidence in your mind to prove those satanic thoughts wrong. And the only cure to that is by reading more and more from the Qur'an and Sunnah to clear the misconceptions that satan puts in your mind. This way, the more evidence you have - the more stronger a believer you will become insha'Allaah, and the more evidence you will have to drive away them satanic thoughts insha'Allaah.



We advise you not to pay any attention to these whispers, and to ignore them, and to do the opposite of what they are calling you to do. For these whispers (waswaas) come from the Shaytaan to cause grief to those who believe. The best way to deal with them is to remember Allaah a great deal (dhikr), to seek refuge with Allaah from the accursed Shaytaan [by saying: a`udhu billahi mina ash-shaytani ar-rajim; I seek refuge and protection in Allah from Satan, the accursed).], to keep away from sins and wrong actions which are the means by which Iblees gains control over the sons of Adam. Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):


“Verily, he [the Shaytaan] has no power over those who believe and put their trust only in their Lord (Allaah)”

[al-Nahl 16:99]

It is worth quoting here what Ibn Hajar al-Haythami (may Allaah have mercy on him) said about dealing with waswasah in his book al-Fataawa al-Fiqhiyyah al-Kubra, 1/149. This is what he said:

“He was asked about the problem of waswasah (insinuating whispers from the Shaytaan), and whether there is a remedy for it.

He replied by saying that there is an effective remedy for it, which is to ignore them completely, no matter how frequently they may come to mind. When these whispers are ignored, they do not become established, rather they go away after a short time, as many people have experienced. But for those who pay attention to them and act upon them, they increase until they make him like one who is insane or even worse, as we see among many of those who have suffered from them and paid attention to them and to the devil whose task it is to insinuate these whispers, whom the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) warned us against when he said, “Beware the whispers with regard to water (i.e., wudoo’) which is caused by a devil called al-Walhaan” – because that causes a person to go to extremes with regard to doing wudoo’, as was explained in Sharh Mishkaat al-Anwaar.


In al-Saheehayn there is a report which supports what has been mentioned above, which is that whoever suffers from waswaas should seek refuge with Allaah and turn away from the waswaas. So think about this effective remedy which was taught by the one who does not speak of his own whims and desires to his ummah, and understand that whoever is deprived of this is deprived of all goodness, because waswasah comes from the Shaytaan, according to scholarly consensus, and the accursed one (the Shaytaan) has no other desire than to make the believers go astray, make them confused, make their life a misery, cause them distress to the extent that they leave Islam without realizing it.


“Surely, Shaytaan (Satan) is an enemy to you, so take (treat) him as an enemy”

[Faatir 35:6 – interpretation of the meaning]


According to another hadeeth, the one who suffers from waswasah should say, “Aamantu Billaahi wa bi rusulihi (I believe in Allaah and in His Messengers).” Undoubtedly, whoever thinks of the paths of the Messengers of Allaah, especially our Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) will find that his path and his law is easy and clear, with no hardship in it.


“… and has not laid upon you in religion any hardship”

[al-Hajj 22:78 – interpretation of the meaning]



Whoever ponders this and believes in it sincerely, the problem of waswasah and listening to the Shaytaan will go away. In the book of Ibn al-Sunni it is narrated via ‘Aa’ishah (may Allaah be pleased with her), “Whoever suffers from this waswaas, let him say ‘Aamantu Billaahi wa bi rusulihi (I believe in Allaah and in His Messengers)’, three times, and it will go away from him.”

Al-‘Izz ibn ‘Abd al-Salaam and others mentioned something similar to the above. They said: the treatment for waswasah is to believe that this is an idea from the Shaytaan and that Iblees is the one who is bringing these thoughts to his mind, and he should strive to fight him. Then he will have the reward of the mujaahid, because he is fighting the enemy of Allaah. If he does that, then the Shaytaan will flee from him. This is what mankind has been tested with from the beginning of time, and Allaah has given him (Iblees) some power over man as a test for him, so that Allaah may show the truth to be true and falsehood to be false, even though the disbelievers may hate that.


In Muslim, hadeeth no. 2203, it is narrated that ‘Uthmaan ibn Abi’l-‘Aas said: “The Shaytaan was interfering with my prayer and recitation of Qur’aan. He [the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) ] said: ‘That is a devil called Khanzab, so seek refuge with Allaah from him and spit drily to your left three times.’ I did that, and Allaah took him away from me.”

This hadeeth proves the point we are making, which is that waswasah can only overpower the one who is ignorant and confused and does not know what’s what. But the one who has knowledge and understanding will the Sunnah and keep away from bid’ah. The worst of the innovators are those who follow waswaas, hence Maalik (may Allaah have mercy on him) narrated that his shaykh al-Rabee’ – who was the imam of the people of his time – was the fastest of the people in relieving himself and doing wudoo’.


Ibn Hurmuz used to be slow in relieving himself and in doing wudoo’, and he used to say “I have a problem, do not follow my example.”


Al-Nawawi (may Allaah have mercy on him) said that one of the scholars thought it was mustahabb for the one who was affected by waswasah with regard to his wudoo or prayer to say Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah, for when the Shaytaan hears dhikr (remembrance of Allaah) he slinks away, and Laa ilaaha ill-Allaah is the best of dhikr, and the most effective remedy for warding off waswasah is to remember Allaah a great deal.

We ask Allaah to take away the waswasah that you are suffering and to increase us and you in faith, righteousness and piety. Ameen.

And Allaah knows best.


Islam Q&A (www.islam-qa.com)

http://63.175.194.25/index.php?ln=eng&ds=qa&QR=62839


I strongly encourage you to read the following threads too:

Soul Selling
http://www.islamicboard.com/cyber-co...l-selling.html

http://www.islamicboard.com/cyber-co...8-did-you.html


Satanic Whispers: Meaning & Remedy
http://www.islamonline.net/servlet/S...=1119503544296



You may feel afraid that you're sinful for this act, even though its not your fault. But alhamdulillah (praise be to Allaah Almighty) - our beloved Prophet Muhammad (peace be upon him) said:


“Allaah has forgiven for my ummah that which is whispered to them and which crosses their minds, so long as they do not act upon it or speak of it.”

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6664; Muslim, 127)



Allaah Almighty says in the Qur'an:

We send down (stage by stage) in the Qur'an that which is a healing and a mercy to those who believe: to the unjust it causes nothing but loss after loss. (17:82)

So listening and reciting to the Qur'an (especially surah falaq (113) and surah nas (114)) may help insha'Allaah:

http://quran.jalisi.com (beautiful Qur'an recitations - Sa'ad al ghamdi)


All of them are authentic and enjoyable masha'Allaah, and it may make it easier to get a deeper understanding of islam so you can beat those evil thoughts because the cure to ignorance is knowledge.





Allaahu ta'aala a'lam. (Allaah Almighty knows best.)


If you got any questions, please do ask insha'Allaah. jazak Allaah khayr.



:wasalamex



I think you should check this link out also insha'Allaah:

http://www.islamicboard.com/cyber-co...need-help.html



When a person has faith, then shaytan will keep whispering to the person to try to distract them from the siraat-ul mustaqeem (the straight path) . So keep remembering Allaah, and keep praising Allaah (i.e. subhan Allaah, alhamdulillah, Allaahu akbar, La illaah illallaah etc.)


Whenever you pray 5 daily prayers, then concentrate on what you say, because within surah fatiha - you recite 'ikhdinas-siraat-al mustaqeem' (guide us to the straight path.) - and if you're sincere in this, Allaah Almighty will keep you on the straight path insha'Allaah, because you pray this surah about 17times a day [minimum] (when you pray your 5 daily salaah/prayers.)


If you remember Allaah Almighty at times of ease, Allaah will remember you at times of hardship insha'Allaah.


We will keep you in our dua's insha'Allaah. :)


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IceQueen~
06-29-2006, 02:05 PM
if ur worried sis then that's a good sign alhamdu lillah-u wanna change and u wanna be good. if uv committed sins read two rakat of nafl and sincerely ask repentance and Allah will forgive you insha allah.

if u constantly feel bugged by shaytan then don't worry-that's normal-just keep asking Allah for guidance like everyone else has said insha allah.

above all NEVER GIVE UP and insha allah u'll do fine.
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glo
06-29-2006, 02:42 PM
I agree with the previous posters.

Trust God completely, and he will guide you through this situation into the truth.
Times of doubt and questioning are part of our walk with God. Do not be held back by guilt and the feeling that 'you are not a good enough believer'!
Now is the time to trust God even more, and to listen out for his guidance!


Be in peace, sister. :statisfie
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AnonymousPoster
07-03-2006, 07:31 AM
:sl: brothers and sisters.
jazakallhu khair for your advice.
what can i say!!?? im... i dont know, happpy, i guess. how can i describe my feelings and lastest questions.
i understand about the taubah etc. im trying to do righteous deeds, and continuing with the deeds i was doing before (as far as i rememebr). my question is, and this is what keeps on bugging me: 1. im not sure if i have done anything to take me out of the fold of islam. i.e if it was in my head, or in my heart that i felt that way. If i have done anything to take me out of the fold of islam, and im not realising it (am i responsoble for something i dont realise, even if it is something that bad), which if i have done something to take me out of its fold, dosn't that then make my deeds vain. get my drift??

*arghh!! so many questions to ask, brain is having a mental block*

2. what if i have done something bad, and it haunts me a death. u know, theres no help there, if your a kaafir.


and one last thing, inshallah, when i ask people about such questions, and the answer has a postitive effect on me. im okay for a while, then i think of my past sins (the ones and i think i may have crossed the boundry), then i freak out. how do i avoid this?? what if it turns out to be genuine and it i dont pick up on it (this also scares me).

one last thing inshallah, how does one know that what one feels/thinks about is from shaytaan and not reality. for example somehting really bad may cross ones mind and feelings about kufr etc. yet, with a kaafir , it dosn't bother them that they a kuffaar(i dont think that they even realise), i.e the kufr is there in their hearts. So how does one distinguish between whispers of satan and the real thing. get my drift?? sorry if that aniat clear, let me know.

when one repents, and still worries about past sins, etc, does this mean they should have more Trust in allah. i feel that when i repent, theres this 'oh theres something missing.' in my heart. it crosses my mind that it is from the shaytaan, as in the ayat (The same) who whispers into the hearts of Mankind,- (114.005), and I also think, you've just repented, is there anything more/better than this?? am i right in thinking this??
anyways, jazakallahu khair everyone.

one last thing, inshallah, how does one be thankful to allah, after favours are bestowed. how does one avoid, or at least decrease laziness.

p.s check this out:

Many years ago (15 years) I read that apostatizing from Islam is one of the things that invalidate wudoo’ and that stuck in my mind. Every time I want to do wudoo’ I feel that I am a kaafir, and I repeat wudoo’ more than once. It may be a kind of waswaas (whispering from the shaytaan) but I really felt as if I was a kaafir. I would repeat the Shahaadatayn but there was a feeling inside that I didn’t believe it. But I would think about the meaning and I found that I believed in it, but the feeling that I am a kaafir will not go away. I weep and I pray to Allaah to heal me from what has befallen me.
I used to refuse to get married for fear of kufr, lest it invalidate the marriage.
Despite all that, I still pray regularly, read Qur’aan and listen to lectures. I know that the way to treat this waswaas is not to pay any attention to it, but I was weak and I paid attention to it. I know that I am wrong. What should I do?.


Answer :

Praise be to Allaah.

We ask Allaah to heal you and make you well, and to replace your waswaas with peace of mind and certain faith.

You should realize that what has befallen you is a great test, and if you bear it with patience and seek reward with Allaah for it, you will attain a great deal of good, by Allaah’s leave. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Calamity will continue to befall the believing man and the believing woman with regard to themselves, their children and their wealth, until they meet Allaah with no sins on them.” Narrated by al-Tirmidhi (2399) and classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

Al-Tirmidhi (2396) and Ibn Maajah (4031) narrated from Anas (may Allaah be pleased with him) that the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “The greatest reward comes with the greatest trial. When Allaah loves a people He tests them. Whoever accepts that wins His pleasure but whoever is discontent with that earns His wrath.” It was classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi.

So receive the glad tidings of a great reward, in sha Allah, and remember that what you feel in yourself will not harm you, so long as you love Allaah and His Messenger (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) and His religion, and you hate kufr and its people.

There follows some advice with which we ask Allaah to benefit you:

1 – You should be certain that this waswaas comes from the shaytaan and is not real. How can you be a kaafir when you pray regularly, read Qur’aan and listen to useful lectures?

2 – You should remember Allaah a great deal (dhikr), so that the shaytaan, who is the source of this waswaas, will go away from you. The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “… and He (Allaah) has commanded you to remember Allaah, and the likeness of that is a man who was being pursued swiftly by the enemy, until he reached a strong fortress in which he found protection; similarly a man cannot find protection from the Shaytaan except by remembering Allaah.”

Classed as saheeh by al-Albaani in Saheeh al-Tirmidhi (2298).

3 – You know that the way to treat this waswaas is to ignore it, so continue to do that.

4 – You should fill your spare time with things that will benefit you, so that you will not have time to think about this waswaas.

5 – You should pray to Allaah a great deal and turn to Him, and seek refuge with Him. Look for the times when du’aa’s are answered, such as the last third of the night and when prostrating.

We ask Allaah to heal you and take away this evil from you.

And Allaah knows best.


Islam Q&A (www.islam-qa.com)

just thought id share.
:sl:
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- Qatada -
07-04-2006, 12:23 PM
:salamext:


I think you should ask these questions on www.islam-qa.com and they may provide you with alot of evidences and advice to support you, and to help you on what you are going through insha'Allaah.


But i feel that it's really important you keep this hadith in mind:


The Messenger of Allaah (peace be upon him) said:

“Allaah has forgiven for my ummah that which is whispered to them and which crosses their minds, so long as they do not act upon it or speak of it.”

(Narrated by al-Bukhaari, 6664; Muslim, 127)


You may also want to check these links out insha'Allaah regarding your questions on repentance:

Important guidelines for the one who repents.
http://www.themodernreligion.com/basic/repent3.htm

After the Bank Heist (A repenting article)
http://www.islamonline.net/english/i...rticle01.shtml

She entered Islam then she deviated from the path of guidance and she wants to repent
http://www.islam-qa.com/index.php?ln...QR=82866&dgn=4


Hadith Qudsi 34:

On the authority of Anas (may Allah be pleased with him), who said: I heard the Messenger of Allah (Peace be upon him) say: Allah the Almighty said:

O son of Adam, so long as you call upon Me and ask of Me, I shall forgive you for what you have done, and I shall not mind. O son of Adam, were your sins to reach the clouds of the sky and were you then to ask forgiveness of Me, I would forgive you. O son of Adam, were you to come to Me with sins nearly as great as the earth and were you then to face Me, ascribing no partner to Me, I would bring you forgiveness nearly as great at it.


It was related by at-Tirmidhi (also by Ahmad ibn Hanbal). Its chain of authorities is sound.


More hadith qudsi:
http://www.usc.edu/dept/MSA/fundamen...dithqudsi.html


Allaah Almighty knows best.


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