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Protected_Diamond
08-10-2006, 11:59 PM

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The status of women in Islam is often the target of attacks in the secular media. The 'hijab' or the Islamic dress is cited by many as an example of the 'subjugation' of women under Islamic law. Before we analyse the reasoning behind the religiously mandated 'hijab', let us first study the status of women in societies before the advent of Islam.

In the past women were degraded and used as objects of lust.
The following examples from history amply illustrate the fact that the status of women in earlier civilizations was very low to the extent that they were denied basic human dignity:

1. Babylonian Civilization:
The women were degraded and were denied all rights under the Babylonian law. If a man murdered a woman, instead of him being punished, his wife was put to death.
2. Greek Civilization:
Greek Civilization is considered the most glorious of all ancient civilizations. Under this very 'glorious' system, women were deprived of all rights and were looked down upon. In Greek mythology, an 'imaginary woman' called 'Pandora' is the root cause of misfortune of human beings. The Greeks considered women to be subhuman and inferior to men. Though chastity of women was precious, and women were held in high esteem, the Greeks were later overwhelmed by ego and sexual perversions. Prostitution became a regular practice amongst all cl***es of Greek society.
3. Roman Civilization:
When Roman Civilization was at the zenith of its 'glory', a man even had the right to take the life of his wife. Prostitution and nudity were common amongst the Romans.
4. Egyptian Civilization:
The Egyptian considered women evil and as a sign of a devil.
5. Pre-Islamic Arabia:
Before Islam spread in Arabia, the Arabs looked down upon women and very often when a female child was born, she was buried alive.
2. Islam uplifted women and gave them equality and expects them to maintain their status.Islam uplifted the status of women and granted them their just rights 1400 years ago. Islam expects women to maintain their status.
Hijab for men
People usually only discuss 'hijab' in the context of women. However, in the Glorious Qur'an, Allah (swt) first mentions 'hijab' for men before 'hijab' for the women. The Qur'an mentions in Surah Noor:
"Say to the believing men that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty: that will make for greater purity for them: and Allah is well acquainted with all that they do."
[Al-Qur'an 24:30]

The moment a man looks at a woman and if any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he should lower his gaze. Hijab for women.
The next verse of Surah Noor, says:
"And say to the believing women that they should lower their gaze and guard their modesty; that they should not display their beauty and ornaments except what (must ordinarily) appear thereof; that they should draw veils over their bosoms and not display their beauty except to their husbands, their fathers, their husbands' fathers, their sons..."
[Al-Qur'ân 24:31]


3. Six criteria for Hijab.

According to Qur'ân and Sunnah there are basically six criteria for observing hijab:

1. Extent: The first criterion is the extent of the body that should be covered. This is different for men and women. The extent of covering obligatory on the male is to cover the body at least from the navel to the knees. For women, the extent of covering obligatory is to cover the complete body except the face and the hands upto the wrist. If they wish to, they can cover even these parts of the body. Some scholars of Islam insist that the face and the hands are part of the obligatory extent of 'hijab'.

All the remaining five criteria are the same for men and women.

2. The clothes worn should be loose and should not reveal the figure.

3. The clothes worn should not be transparent such that one can see through them.

4. The clothes worn should not be so glamorous as to attract the opposite sex.

5. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the opposite sex.

6. The clothes worn should not resemble that of the unbelievers i.e. they should not wear clothes that are specifically identities or symbols of the unbelievers' religions.

4. Hijab includes conduct and behaviour among other things.
Complete 'hijab', besides the six criteria of clothing, also includes the moral conduct, behaviour, attitude and intention of the individual. A person only fulfilling the criteria of 'hijab' of the clothes is observing 'hijab' in a limited sense. 'Hijab' of the clothes should be accompanied by 'hijab' of the eyes, 'hijab' of the heart, 'hijab' of thought and 'hijab' of intention. It also includes the way a person walks, the way a person talks, the way he behaves, etc.

5. Hijab prevents molestation.
The reason why Hijab is prescribed for women is mentioned in the Qur'ân in the following verses of Surah Al-Ahab: "O Prophet! Tell thy wives and daughters, and the believing women that they should cast their outer garments over their persons (when abroad); that is most convenient, that they should be known (as such) and not molested. And Allah is Oft-Forgiving, Most Merciful." [Al-Qur'ân 33:59]
The Qur'ân says that Hijab has been prescribed for the women so that they are recognized as modest women and this will also prevent them from being molested.
6. Example of twin sisters.
Suppose two sisters who are twins, and who are equally beautiful, walk down the street. One of them is attired in the Islamic hijab i.e. the complete body is covered, except for the face and the hands up to the wrists. The other sister is wearing western clothes, a mini skirt or shorts. Just around the corner there is a hooligan or ruffian who is waiting for a catch, to tease a girl. Whom will he tease? The girl wearing the Islamic Hijab or the girl wearing the skirt or the mini? Naturally he will tease the girl wearing the skirt or the mini. Such dresses are an indirect invitation to the opposite sex for teasing and molestation. The Qur'ân rightly says that hijab prevents women from being molested.
7. Capital punishment for the rapists.
Under the Islamic shariah, a man convicted of having raped a woman, is given capital punishment. Many are astonished at this 'harsh' sentence. Some even say that Islam is a ruthless, barbaric religion! I have asked a simple question to hundreds of non-Muslim men. Suppose, God forbid, someone rapes your wife, your mother or your sister. You are made the judge and the rapist is brought in front of you. What punishment would you give him? All of them said they would put him to death. Some went to the extent of saying they would torture him to death. To them I ask, if someone rapes your wife or your mother you want to put him to death. But if the same crime is committed on somebody else's wife or daughter you say capital punishment is barbaric. Why should there be double standards?
8. Western society falsely claims to have uplifted women.
Western talk of women's liberalization is nothing but a disguised form of exploitation of her body, degradation of her soul, and deprivation of her honour. Western society claims to have 'uplifted' women. On the contrary it has actually degraded them to the status of concubines, mistresses and society butterflies who are mere tools in the hands of pleasure seekers and sex marketeers, hidden behind the colourful screen of 'art' and 'culture'.
9. USA has one of the highest rates of rape.
United States of America is supposed to be one of the most advanced countries of the world. It also has one of the highest rates of rape in any country in the world. According to a FBI report, in the year 1990, every day on an average 1756 cases of rape were committed in U.S.A alone. Later another report said that on an average everyday 1900 cases of rapes are committed in USA. The year was not mentioned. May be it was 1992 or 1993. May be the Americans got 'bolder' in the following years.
Consider a scenario where the Islamic hijab is followed in America. Whenever a man looks at a woman and any brazen or unashamed thought comes to his mind, he lowers his gaze. Every woman wears the Islamic hijab, that is the complete body is covered except the face and the hands up to the wrist. After this if any man commits rape he is given capital punishment. I ask you, in such a scenario, will the rate of rape in America increase, will it remain the same, or will it decrease?
10. Implementation of Islamic Sharee'ah will reduce the rate of rapes.
Naturally as soon as Islamic Sharee'ah is implemented positive results will be inevitable. If Islamic Sharee'ah is implemented in any part of the world, whether it is America or Europe, society will breathe easier. Hijab does not degrade a woman but uplifts a woman and protects her modesty and chastity.
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Looking4Peace
08-11-2006, 12:02 AM
Thanks for this, very nice post, is this yours or copy and pasted cause i would love to email this over to my friends who question why i joined a submissive religion.
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Protected_Diamond
08-11-2006, 12:04 AM
:sl:

copied & pasted sister :D

:w: ;)
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Looking4Peace
08-11-2006, 12:10 AM
Thanks sis :sister:
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Isa Abdullah
08-11-2006, 12:11 AM
bismillah

good post sister.
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Dahir
08-11-2006, 12:13 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Umm Salamah
:sl:

copied & pasted sister :D

:w: ;)
Regardless, its still a great post, and I've just learned that even men have to wear an adjusted hijab. And hijabs save lives (the molestation article)! Keep up the good work. ;) :thumbs_up
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Joe98
08-11-2006, 12:45 AM
What type of business are often run by Muslim women?
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Looking4Peace
08-11-2006, 12:51 AM
^^^^umm plenty and my brothers dr is a woman in full Hijab so dont ***ume their men keep them at home.

and thats doctor not the nurse of medical aid to the dr!
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جوري
08-11-2006, 12:56 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Joe98
What type of business are often run by Muslim women?
Yup..... lots of Muslim women docs in Hijab.....also know two dentists in Hijab...:coolsis:
what is so unusual about women in scarves? I mean in the sisters of mercy and bon secours, the nuns walk around in their modest wear..... I have never seen anyone har*** them...... don't know about business..... but medicine is certainly a nice career for Muslim women ... pharmacy as well,......my sister and close childhood friend both being pharmacists in scarves( Hijab).....
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QuranStudy
08-11-2006, 01:03 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Joe98
What type of business are often run by Muslim women?
All kinds. Prophet Muhammad was an employee of Khadijah before they got married.

(On a personal level, my mother is a businesswoman as well.)
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جوري
08-11-2006, 01:08 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by HusamLah
geeze louise! he just asked a simple question
For which he got a complete picture is there a problem with that?
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Joe98
08-11-2006, 01:33 AM
Can Muslim women run a busienss where the staff and or customers are men?
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Woodrow
08-11-2006, 01:46 AM
format_quote Originally Posted by Joe98
Can Muslim women run a busienss where the staff and or customers are men?
I can not think of any reason they can not as long as all contacts are strictly related to business. I know of a few Female engineers that have an essentialy all male staff.
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manaal
08-12-2006, 06:02 AM
Mash Allah, excellent post! May Allah reward you sis for adding to our knowledge!

Originally Posted by Joe98


Can Muslim women run a busienss where the staff and or customers are men?

Orginally Posted by Woodrow
I can not think of any reason they can not as long as all contacts are strictly related to business. I know of a few Female engineers that have an essentialy all male staff.
The Quran asks women to lower their gaze. When speaking or dealing with men, the women should not look directly into their faces or make eye-contact.
Most Muslim Women in my coutry run nursery school or are teachers of some sort.
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Zone Maker
08-21-2006, 03:39 AM
I won't be surprised if non-Muslims after few years are gona say that men are being oppressed in islam:brother: .
They will always try to give Islam a bad name.
heh heh heh.;D
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Protected_Diamond
09-08-2006, 11:18 AM
^ True!
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Isaac
09-10-2006, 10:32 AM
i don't know which company would want to hire any muslim women who wears jilbab or abaya and niqaab..maybe thats happened but if you have no income coming in then you should consider taking off your clothes or just wearing hijaab to get the job.

Sister in all honestly i have seen sisters working in jilbaabs and hijabs. Hey ive even seen them in niqaab, but only at the harmains in mecca and medina. But they should not at anygiven time sacrifice their modesty. As longs as what they wear is modest. And when i mean modest, i mean not attarcting attention of the opposite sex in temrs of design, colour, fitting etc etc.
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sacred_rose
09-10-2006, 10:50 AM
my sister wears the aybaya and she works as a teacher i dont work im still in school but i wear the jilbab
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Isaac
09-10-2006, 10:51 AM
Salam sister. You may want to read my post. Not once did i mention that wearing other than the jilbab or abaya is not modest. I said that if sister, and im talking about sister who hold firm to wearing the jilbab or abaya are in the situation which you are talking about then they should opt for someting which is NOT the jilbab but instead something which is MODEST. Now when you dont have a simple cloth which covers one from the head to the toe, it can be of either tow things modest or not modest. And the point here is form muslim women to wear something other than the jilbab which is modest.

If you have a personal issue or have come to a conclusion that thats fine sister, but then you go against what you say, as to regards of sisters who may hold the opposite view to you. They may feel as strong as you when it comes to the subject of jilbab and niqab, which is why they will at whatever cost not compromise.

You have to remember there are two views on the subject. Oe which you hold and the other which someone else holds. Now to say one is wrong is to completely reject anothers struggle.
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Isaac
09-10-2006, 10:55 AM
And the point about cultural manifestation, so what is your point? its a cultural thing which has been enforced into Islam. See how you sound. On one point you say its a cultural manifestaion to wear jilbab and on the other you say your anti-jilbab, niqaab, albaya.
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Isaac
09-10-2006, 11:21 AM
Ok, sister. You dont have to sound so against Arabs. Just remember that there are people who hold an opposing view to yours which is just as well documented with evdience from the quran and hadith. Now im not saying one is wrong and the other is right. Im saying if one feels conviction in their heart that what they are doing is right and that they are in persuit of Allahs pleasure, let them be, dont put them down. We are muslims, and as muslims we should help one aonther to the pleasure of Allah.

Now Alhamdullilah as you put your point across and hold firm to you belief on such a subject, if someone from the other side of the fense came and said what you said in the way you said it, you would be sure to here these people being called names such as "they think there better because they wear jilbab" etc etc etc. And then an imagineay barrier will be formed, which would cause one another to look down on each other.

The point i would like to conclude on is that from a sharia prespective the two would not be wrong. So why try to become wrong by making claims such as that its not from islam to wear jilbab or niqab? Like i said you have to remeber that there are always two sides in an opposing subject, and in some cases according to sharia, they can both be accpeted, which is what is often refferd to as difference of opinion in fiqh. And this can only be brought about if both sides have documented material which is sourced from the quran and hadith. And in this case the opposing side which you say is not from Islam does have doceumnetd material.

Now im not trying to get into a matter of which sside is right and which side is wrong, because like i said not one of them can be as far as i may comment be deemed wrong according to the sharia view of jilbab and hijab. But what i can seem to figure out is that why in the 21st century we as muslims cant not stick together when our bretherens are being opressed and killed, our lands are further divided, our muajhideen and ulema being locked up and the worship of Allah is only being confined to the masjds. Its pretty clear that this is a much bigger issue than choosing between wearing a jilbab and wearing modest clothing other than the Jilab which still fulfils the criteria.

Asalamualikum Sister.
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scentsofjannah
09-19-2006, 03:40 PM
:sl:

Somehow i can't find my posts on this thread..anyways i didnt intend any harm..im not anti-arab..i just stated a fact..the abaya and jilbab and niqaab is the cultural dress of many arab/iranian/ afghani women..if you look at pakistani women their traditional dress is the shalwar kameez, the african women also have their own style of modest dress ie the buba (shirt) and the skirt /wrap around..richly decorated and handwoven, similarly malay/indonesian women also have their own clothes..the baju kuroung/baju kebaya which is absolutely beautiful..but somehow many muslims think the only 'modest' dress out there is the abaya and the jilbab and niqaab!! and that its the only dress sanctioned by Allah..does Allah want us to all wear the same clothes? with no patterns or designs..because some people say thats 'haraam'? subhanallah i hope you got my point brother...and once again thanks for your reply.

:w:
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