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Anonymous Tester
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I'm feeling really down,I dont know what to do....
In Ramadaan Alhamdulillah, I took the decision to wear my niqaab again
I took some time off work during ramadan and since then I have not been back to work....I have been taking sick leave, next week i'm due to be back at work...and i really dont want to go back, I like my job, Alhamdulillah I am able to wear Hijab and Jilbaab....but the problem is it is a public place and i am unable to wear niqaab, my niqaab is an important part of me i feel my chastity is protected and I develop more Taqwa, without my Niqaab I get men giving me lustful looks...and i feel like my appearence has been tarred. without my niqaab i will feel like i am compromising my deen and its a big burden on my heart...I just dont want to go back to work!
In ramadan i made intention not to go back, with all my heart i dont want to...i feel i cant face them!
and all this islamaphobia regarding the niqaab has made me even more reluctant to go back
I told my parents i dont want to go back to work.. they told me not to leave as I have a good job, it's good pay and its literally across the road from where i live and most of all i do really need the money.
Omg
SubhanAllah
I dont know whats happening to us, is it me being arguementative.
What are people saying in this thread?
La Hawla Wa La Quwata Illah Billah
the sister is saying "without my niqaab i will feel like i am compromising my deen and its a big burden on my heart...I just dont want to go back to work!"
And people are like 'its only niqab' 'its only sunnah'
What the? First, alot of scholars aparently say it is fard, so I dont know what you been listening to, to just be able to brush it off.
Second, it doesnt matter what it is, the sister has just said in no uncertain terms that without the niqab she feels like she is compromising Islam.
Sister, I think its amazing that you wear niqab. As for you situation, personally, I'd do what I can, if I can live without the money I'd quit if they wouldnt let me wear what I wanted. Specially if its something which iss important.
Anyhow, I think am just in an arguementative mood today, I dont get how people can just be so complacent. :hiding: :hiding:
I've seen people leaving bits and parts of Islam, till one day Islam and Imaan left them.
Sorry if I've been harsh and I do apologise and I love every Muslim for the sake of Allah so please do not be angry at me and have patience with me.
Eesa.