This brother confused me

[AnonymousPoster]

:sl: There is dis brother hes a revert, he tries to lower his gaze hes a good practising brother masha allah, i really like him and i noticed that he never looks at me, if he is giving me a leaflet his head will be down thats beautiful BUT when he talks to oder sisterz he would look at them.
A person has to lower their gaze at all times not all sometimes right?
:w:

[Kittygyal]

salam.
N3'am a person speaking,meeting etc etc with oppsoite gender SHOULD always 'lower there Gaze at all times'
w.salam

[FBI]

:sl:

lol, yep your right.

[Daffodil]

perhaps he just forgot, or perhaps he respects u more then other sisters cuz u probs cover, or perhaps he finds u more attractive then other sisters so feels he has to lower is gaze with u, or vice versa, perhaps he cant help lookin at the other sisters cuz he finds them attractive (not tryna put u down sis) dnt read so much into it sis lol, its such a woman thing to do "why does he do this with me n not other girls, maybe he wants to marry me n have kids with me n grow old with me" lol, sis seriously little things like this are from shaytan to distract u from allah swt, dnt think nothing of it! seriously.

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[Malaikah]

:sl:

Weird! Maybe hes shy of you or something? perhaps he thinks your more 'practising' than other girls so he will lower his gaze when talking to out of respect? :?

[AnonymousPoster]

:sl: There is dis brother hes a revert, he tries to lower his gaze hes a good practising brother masha allah, i really like him and i noticed that he never looks at me, if he is giving me a leaflet his head will be down thats beautiful BUT when he talks to oder sisterz he would look at them.
A person has to lower their gaze at all times not all sometimes right?
:w:

That is a pathetic question, it almost amounts to backbiting and gossip combined, what's it to us? that's between you and him.

You really need cyber counselling for that? ^o)

[Yasmine018]

:sl:

Sis why don't you go directly towards him and say what you wanna say that's in your heart to him. Tell him if is he shy with you?! Or why he don't look at you face to face?! Now don't go and say that in a hard tone, relax and smilingly talk to him about that matter.

:w:

[AnonymousPoster]

:sl: anonymous no nd to be so rude
daff thankz sis:w:

[IbnAbdulHakim]

:sl:

Sis why don't you go directly towards him and say what you wanna say that's in your heart to him. Tell him if is he shy with you?! Or why he don't look at you face to face?! Now don't go and say that in a hard tone, relax and smilingly talk to him about that matter.

:w:

:salamext:

WHOAH !! sis wiv all due respect i really wouldnt do that i mean think about it.


sister: broo are u shy of me :embarrass
brother: umm... :embarrass
sister: :embarrass :love:
brother: :embarrass :embarrass :love:


trust me !!! you dont wanna do that !

just forget about it and make dua'a for the brother, thats my sincere advice !

:wasalamex


may Allah grant us all the understanding ! Ameen :)

[youngsister]

:sl: Whatever you do...
DONT GO UP TO HIM! I mean if a brother came to me and said why are shy of me I be like:muddlehea ^o) :-\ :rant: :thumbs_do
Nah seriously please I dont think you are even allowed to that, because you never know what it might lead to.
BlE$$
:w:

[Yasmine018]

nah but if u like him, u need to know whats lacking sis/bro. Hence u may approach him n tell or speak to him. Its nothing wrong in that. n ALWAYS THINK POSITIVELY!!! coz u cant stop loving person if the latter get shy with you. may be if the sis approach the shyly brother and speak to him, then who knows, Insha Allah everything can turn on well!!!!!!!!!!!

[al Amaanah]

:salamext:

WHOAH !! sis wiv all due respect i really wouldnt do that i mean think about it.


sister: broo are u shy of me :embarrass
brother: umm... :embarrass
sister: :embarrass :love:
brother: :embarrass :embarrass :love:


trust me !!! you dont wanna do that !

just forget about it and make dua'a for the brother, thats my sincere advice !

:wasalamex


may Allah grant us all the understanding ! Ameen :)

lol true. and ameen!

[IbnAbdulHakim]

nah but if u like him, u need to know whats lacking sis/bro. Hence u may approach him n tell or speak to him. Its nothing wrong in that. n ALWAYS THINK POSITIVELY!!! coz u cant stop loving person if the latter get shy with you. may be if the sis approach the shyly brother and speak to him, then who knows, Insha Allah everything can turn on well!!!!!!!!!!!

:salamext:

theres no reason at all to kno, seriously the sister shouldnt care too much just make dua for the brother but if she wants to marry him or somethin she can always approach a wali about it, no need to go to the brother ! thats just askin for fitnah :uuh:

[Yasmine018]

thats it bro..........she will have to take a wali........am sorry i just forgot about the wali.................:embarrass :embarrass :embarrass :embarrass

[Rabiyal]

perhaps he just forgot, or perhaps he respects u more then other sisters cuz u probs cover, or perhaps he finds u more attractive then other sisters so feels he has to lower is gaze with u, or vice versa, perhaps he cant help lookin at the other sisters cuz he finds them attractive (not tryna put u down sis) dnt read so much into it sis lol, its such a woman thing to do "why does he do this with me n not other girls, maybe he wants to marry me n have kids with me n grow old with me" lol, sis seriously little things like this are from shaytan to distract u from allah swt, dnt think nothing of it! seriously.

SIMPLY well put!!! Great advise.