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I think it may be because the person hasn't tasted the sweetness of emaan [faith.]
Reported by Al-Bukhari and Muslim, on the authority of Anas (ra) is that he said: "Allah's Messenger
said:
"Whoever possesses the following three qualities will have the sweetness of faith: (i) The one to whom Allah and His Messenger
are more loved than anything else; (ii) the one who loves a person purely and solely for Allah's sake; and (iii) the one who hates to return to
kufr after Allah has saved him, as he would hate to be thrown into the Fire." and in another narration: "None of you will find the sweetness of faith until..."
"None of you truly believes until I am more beloved by him than his sons, his father and all of mankind."
(Narrated by Bukhari and Muslim)
Allah's Messenger
informs us in this Hadith that faith has a sweetness, and that this sweetness will not be experienced by any except him who places his love of Allah and His Messenger
before that of all others and who does not love anyone except for Allah's sake and none other, and who hates disbelief and the idea of returning to it as much as he hates the Hell-fire and as much as he would hate to be thrown into it.
We have certainly created man into hardship. [Qur'an 90:5]
Do men think that they will be left alone on saying, "We believe", and that they will not be tested?
We did test those before them, and Allah will certainly know those who are true from those who are false.
[Qur'an Surah Ankaboot (29:03)]
This world is surrounded by hardships, but these hardships remove a persons sins, if the person puts their trust and faith in Allaah.
At moments of hardship, you're supposed to feel at ease and do whatever you have control over, then place all your trust in Allaah. This makes it easier for the believer compared to the one who doesn't have faith because the disbeliever doesn't actually have Allaah Almighty to rely or depend on.
The Messenger of Allaah (peace be upon him) said:
“No fatigue, nor disease, nor anxiety, nor sadness, nor hurt, nor distress befalls a Muslim, even if it were the prick he receives from a thorn, but that Allah expiates some of his sins for that”
(Al-Bukhari and Muslim).
Reaping the Fruits of Afflictions
http://www.islamonline.net/English/H...05/04/01.shtml
Allaah never burdens a soul with more than it can bear. So you'll never be tested with something you can't handle, even if shaytaan makes it seem like that to you.
If you feel like a stranger for following the sunnah, try checking this thread out insha'Allaah:
http://www.islamicboard.com/cyber-co...-stranger.html
May Allaah make the trials of this world and the hereafter easy for us all. ameen.