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anonymous
errrrrrrrrrrrr honey i got AA in eng lit n lang i know wat am talkin bout :p
nope...grades arent everything...its spelt anonymous...i know because i do.
and like i said...grades arent everything...this goes to PSmuslim, your grades may help you give better da'wah, but if for them, you abandon your mum, it is all in vain. you can still give better da'wah if you dont have that good grades...note, im not saying that good grades are bad...you ought to stive for them, but that doesnt necessarily mean that leave your mum as she is. and one thing i dont get...is why would your mum living with you affect your studies?...i mean if you have to work for her, if thats the thing, you're working for yourself too arent you?...if this is about houseworks, if she is living alone, i am guessing that she should be capable of working, cooking etc for herself...if it is working to earn money, dont you have to do that yourself? or doesnt your mum get benefits?...and if she moves in with you, wouldnt that help save the money that she pays for her apartment?
even if you say that having friends around isnt going to hamper your studies,...let me tell you one thing...you're wrong...you want to know why? because no matter how much you want to study, under peer pressure, you just wont be able to. its just too hard. everytime i go to my friends house for a sleepover, i plan im going to do some science revision...but once im there, im like 'tsshh...who cares...can do that tomorrow', but then tomorrow, i have more work, more pressure...and become stressed....but thats not the point. the point is that with friends around, you wont be able to study...and thus if your mum wants to live with you, and you want someone around, she is the one :)
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